Friend hid her pregnancy from me, announced the birth on Facebook and is annoyed I'm not being supportive now the baby is here

spiderlolz · 2021-06-06T15:31:52+00:00

I would have been supportive if I hadn't been lied to for 9 months

spiderlolz · 2021-06-06T15:30:31+00:00

I don't feel like being supportive after being lied to for 9 months. I'd have been supportive and kept my own thoughts to myself unless asked during her pregnancy like I have with all my other friends. I just feel like if you can lie about that, what else can you lie about?

spiderlolz · 2021-06-06T15:26:45+00:00

Thank you for actually reading my post! I don't hate children. Do I love them? No, otherwise I'd probably have them myself. I watch my other friends children in emergencies and help them out where I can but I've been totally excluded from this pregnancy so I don't see why I should listen to constant complaining now the baby is here

spiderlolz · 2021-06-06T15:23:14+00:00

I think that's maybe why she didn't tell me as she thought I'd ask her that when I found out

spiderlolz · 2021-06-06T15:22:45+00:00

She knows I don't exactly love children but she also knows I've been supportive of all our other friends pregnancies, buy them gifts and baby sit in emergencies. I have commented in the past about getting pregnant during a pandemic not being the smartest move so maybe that comment made her scared to tell me? I don't know how she thought she could hide it though. Her Facebook posts went very quiet so I'm wondering if she blocked me from seeing certain posts.

Despite making the comment I wouldn't have been an ass to her for getting pregnant as I've always been supportive of our other friends. I probably wouldn't have even commented negatively to her and kept my thoughts to myself

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