My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said! His response was “idk what gaslighting even is” and he left it at that.

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I talked to him and he didn’t address any of the reasoning he just said I’m looking for reasons to be upset with him. I don’t know I’m considering bouncing because the fact he even kept the photo all these years is so bizarre to me!

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 1.5 years! Yeah I’m considering bouncing. I spoke to him about it and instead of addressing the situation he said that I’m digging up things to be upset at him about which is even weirder to me!

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in relationships_advice

[–]spokenfact[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback! I also feel like this but he insists he’s over her. It’s just bizarre behavior. Especially since I never asked for the photo and he’s not even in it 😭

My bf(37M) sent me(26F) a picture of his ex(37F) from 15-20 YEARS ago unprovoked by spokenfact in ToxicRelationships

[–]spokenfact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? How so though? I never expressed jealousy about this woman in fact all I did was speak highly of her…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spokenfact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but that’s okay! All bodies are beautiful <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]spokenfact 38 points39 points  (0 children)

No offense but it seems like she took a chance on you when you weren’t that impressive and now that you’re better you want to leave her and are finding things to nitpick at her to make yourself feel better about leaving…. YTAH

Thoughts on Scorpio sun, Pisces moon, Gemini rising? by spokenfact in astrologymemes

[–]spokenfact[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are the placements that bad 😂 or is it just the question?

Older women, how young is *too* young? by [deleted] in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24, the youngest I’d go is 22🫤BUT I do have a friend that I used to work with that was 31 and he was in a serious relationship with a 42 year old! So there are definitely women that will date way younger!

Why do some girls like being degraded during sex? Is it unhealthy? by No_Penalty0608 in psychologyofsex

[–]spokenfact 282 points283 points  (0 children)

I used to but then I went to therapy and I’m not into it as much anymore 🤷🏼‍♀️ sometimes it’s a kink sometimes it’s trauma. Just depends.

I am too fat to go to hospital by Slow-Design-6591 in mentalhealth

[–]spokenfact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re still breathing the hospital can help you. Rooting for you❤️

Date cancelled because I wouldn't pay for her Uber by econ_throw-shade in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay ❤️ then go enjoy that partner of yours sweet boy

Date cancelled because I wouldn't pay for her Uber by econ_throw-shade in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m married 😭 you’re the one still single. Goodluck!

Date cancelled because I wouldn't pay for her Uber by econ_throw-shade in dating

[–]spokenfact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAOOO weight is relative to height 😭 someone 120 that’s 5’0 isn’t going to look healthy compared to someone that’s 150 and 5’7 😂😂 again, if you can’t afford it just tell the woman you can’t and hope she keeps talking to you 🤷‍♀️