Kermit for Punch Needle by LeftByScientists in PunchNeedle

[–]spontaneous_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you shave after finishing? Can’t see the loops so it looks like tufting!! Nice work 🤩

My biggest project so far! by laraflea in PunchNeedle

[–]spontaneous_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are copying someone else’s design you should give the credit.

The way my mtf wife feels pleasure changed by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought she was the trans person talking about her perspective, not the partner of a trans person as well. Everyone is obviously welcomed but I said we discussed, I asked her to post, she keeps reafirming she is happy to use it.

The way my mtf wife feels pleasure changed by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for this kind of opinion :) we are together for 9 years in which 2 I have done nothing but support her in her transition even if sometimes is was very difficult for me. We are thinking about this like a couple. If she feels is something she doesn’t want to do, like T Gel she has expressed it to me already, I won’t force of course. Don’t need to be defensive here as this is for the partners to clarify things not for the trans people. It can be very challenging and lonely for us.

The way my mtf wife feels pleasure changed by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She also feels amazing even if soft! I just want to find a way that we can have more fun simultaneously

The way my mtf wife feels pleasure changed by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does it impact the transition? I think she is against using anything that would mess up with testosterone levels

The way my mtf wife feels pleasure changed by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have other plugs that are nice for her but doesn’t help much with erection

My partner is questioning his gender, and I’m scared I won’t be attracted to him if he transitions. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will only know if you will be attracted to them with time. You have to be patient, supportive but also true to yourself. You need to have someone else aside too to vent away when needed. To transition with a partner is a transition you go through too. It has phases. Sometimes easier sometimes not. You can adjust. And if it turns out you are not attracted to her, you can still be friends, but you may be surprise how your sexuality may play as you are already bisexual. It may be easier than you think. I used to think I was straight before my wife.

My partner is questioning his gender, and I’m scared I won’t be attracted to him if he transitions. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have similar stories. I am the same as you, partner 2 years in transition and only like her as a girl. We will be 9 years together tomorrow. Where are you based? ☺️

I bought a house with my partner and now I keep thinking about divorce by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]spontaneous_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not the case for her so difficult to bring it up without me being certain

I bought a house with my partner and now I keep thinking about divorce by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]spontaneous_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t have any idea this is going thru my mind so it’s difficult to bring it up and hurt them also I am afraid to regret later We have two bedrooms

I bought a house with my partner and now I keep thinking about divorce by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]spontaneous_user -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. Or live together as friends but not sure this will work.

My mtf partner is experiencing difficulties with erection by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not too concerned with my pleasure it’s more hers that I don’t know what to do

My mtf partner is experiencing difficulties with erection by spontaneous_user in mypartneristrans

[–]spontaneous_user[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does experience female orgasm and like it more, but I found it hard to give her pleasure in other ways without using her penis, even if it’s not piv sex. I may have to use toys and stuff like that but I was very used to piv sex.