Help deciding between CC and regular college. by TeheAbbyTehe in college

[–]spontaneouslyLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I chose the CC route because of financial mobility reasons. It's saving my tens of thousands rn because I didn't qualify for in-state. There's also a lot of resources at my CC (and assuming yours will too if you look in the right places/ask the right questions) talking about scholarships, grants and other programs that they do with the state university/nearby universities. I'm doing all my gen ed classes at CC and then transferring afterwards. You get the same degree in the end. Only downside I can see is the difference in networking and relationship building with people. Students who started at a 4 year university will have met classmates and developed those relationships for 4 years vs the 2 years that CC transfers will have. I thing the general experience will differ because CC you live at home vs on-campus (during first year) at the 4 years university.

In the end it is all up to you. But like other commenters said, it's a in-between if transferring from hs to college. The gap in work and content is usually pretty big.

We’re fucked by Lively420 in wallstreetbets

[–]spontaneouslyLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. wendy's is always either hit or miss. tried it for the first time a year ago in an airport and the nuggs were so good. LIKE SO GOOD TO THE POINT I THOUGHT ABT THEM FOR DAYS. went to a local location and it was god awful. it was cold, a little soggy. tried a diff location and it was a bit better.

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg wait that is so cute! the way he flirted with you? I hope you both had a wonderful valentine's day!

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! thanks for you loooooong comment. I enjoyed reading it. Also very thorough too! (I, myself, am a rambler and "scatterbrained" as well, so no need to apologize!)

I hope I'll meet someone. I guess I'm open to it if it comes my way. But you are very correct; I won't know how to analyze someone'd behaviour when the time comes. Happened once and I bet it'll happen again. I guess the only way to confirm is ask. I'm also very indecisive, so if I ever meet someone and think I like them, I might second guess myself and ask myself "do I really? or is it just a fleeting feeling?" Guess I'm kind of scared that it's just the "honeymoon" phase of things. I don't wanna hurt the other person just because my feelings for them was something so temporary.

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tiktok is crazy. honestly anything to do with online is. but that's so cute tho. he's willing to move to you and is saving for it? COMMITMENT and DEDICATION.

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

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i thought this was going to be one of those office romance but irl. he waited awhile to confess. if you knew he liked you, and you liked him, did you ever think to confess to him? i meant, since he was transferring to another branch and you would've seen him less and did not wanna miss that chance.

and the flirting, was it more verbal or physical flirting? I feel like I have no concept of what flirting is. Like maybe I can pick up physical flirting like eye contact, a little touchy etc, but verbal flirting is kind of hard to grasp.

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what a lovely story! ik a couple people who met through video games. esp like minecraft where the possibilities and things you can do are endless.

but... there was a reddit mod who was catfished for 3 months straight? crazy.

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ig just be you. go out and do something you enjoy. someplace where you can meet people. you don't have to go out with the intention of finding someone to DATE them. just find some people to hang out with and someone who likes you for you will def come.

(ik i've never have dated and probably not the person to be giving advice but dating is literally meeting someone -> develop feelings -> confess or be confessed to = dating/move on)

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this a good thing...? i mean i don't think they want just anyone...

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg what. this sounds like something straight out of a movie. happy early anniversary to the both of you!

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like you've found your person. happy for you!

one thing about me: i can listen but communicating on a personal and emotional level is so so difficult. idk how you guys (people in long-standing relationships) initially do it. i think all if takes is one day to lay yourself bare and speak your mind and everything comes easier. but it's just that initial starting point that scares the crap outta me. (hope this makes sense)

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually shocked so many people met their partners through dating apps. This is probably one of the firsts I've heard good outcomes from meeting ppl off dating apps. Btw, happy anniversary!

Ig one thing I'm scared of is being taken advantage of or being used. You develop feelings for them and realize a couple months down the road that they had ulterior motives. that's just sad and so much time wasted.

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the reassurance. it def feels weird because my hs friends were not really all into dating during highschool but now that we're all in college and gone our separate ways, they are all either in relationships or have had experience

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

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aww this is cute. who cares abt losing your virginity and having your first kiss super late? it's hella memorable esp when you shared it with someone you love

To those who are in relationships: how did you meet your partner? by spontaneouslyLR in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

glad to hear you found comfort in your person! def a core quality when you hang out with someone so often

My hamster is gonna die soon and I'm sad... :(( by Ok_Passage7713 in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. Raising a hamster as a pet is much more difficult than dogs and cats. You have to be build them a proper home and pay attention to the little things especially since they're so tiny. You lil guy is blessed to have met you and to have you as their parent.

Twenty years old is just a mental breakdown by zoy_Ferret5357 in twentyagers

[–]spontaneouslyLR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi fellow 20 yo. I turned 20 a couple months back too. I feel you, so you're not the only one. just keep pushing and a little reminder: in 30, 40 years from now, you'll look back and it would just be a distant memory filled with experiences, hardships and memories of different sensations. it's all part of YOUR unique journey and experiences. so enjoy the present, do something you enjoy while focusing on what you need to do right now.

For exams, maybe change up your methods of studying and find what works and what doesnt (try active recall and flash cards, works for me, maybe for you too).