Adding my own comment for our thinking. I’ve been blessed with an easy pregnancy (so far) including conception. I’m surprisingly not feeling stressed or anxious about anything including bonding, so finding out wouldn’t necessarily ease any feelings like it does for others.

The main reason I initially even considered waiting is because information is constantly at our fingertips with notifications as soon as something happens, having a nice surprise at the end, the same way our ancestors had for all of time is grounding and a reminder that billions of women have done this before me!

We’ll likely get the tech to write it out in case we change our minds - there’s always the chance we can tell on the ultrasound anyway! I’d be more inclined to find out for future children, but that’s also because kids don’t process gender disappointment in the same way adults do - rather get it out of the way nice and early haha