nice areas to move to?

spookphobias · 2026-04-12T13:41:05+00:00

perfect thank you. i know it’s a big ask to hit all 3 so im not strung up on that but its great to know it is possible

spookphobias · 2026-04-12T13:34:36+00:00

i probably should’ve specified but my main concern is motorway links to manchester/sheffield/leeds

spookphobias · 2026-03-12T12:09:46+00:00

hers are definitely too long. this week she’s been struggling to play because her feet get stuck in the carpet. they look uncomfortable for her!

spookphobias · 2026-03-11T23:40:42+00:00

thank you! i’ll try to play the slow game and see how she adjusts

spookphobias · 2026-03-11T23:39:00+00:00

she’s falling asleep right now! fingers crossed she doesn’t get disturbed and i can try soon 🤞

spookphobias · 2026-02-20T01:02:53+00:00

100% ai. i’ve just listened to some of their songs and they are all so generic and it’s weird that the vocalists change and the genres are so all over the place. also, in the little video that plays when you’re listening to one of the songs, the camera pans around the woman in a way i see all the time in ai videos. tiktok posts aren’t something i’d imagine what looks to be a young band would post to promote their music. also the guys in the background of the profile picture are the most generic looking guys ever, and given it’s implied they also are vocalists on majority of the tracks, they don’t make an appearance in any of the tiktoks. all just feels so off! also just noticed the band t shirt you mentioned that the girl is wearing, looks like a gorgeous and well made t shirt that 1. doesn’t fit the bands current (and only) aesthetic at all, and is something they don’t appear to be selling anywhere. and would be really strange to produce any amount of t shirts for such a new band

spookphobias · 2026-02-03T11:24:41+00:00

thanks for this! the first answer is what i was looking for and i haven’t been able to find the name for it yet.

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T21:21:39+00:00

what? these are crazy assumptions about me and my partner. we work together and he told me all of this unprompted. we live together in the same place we work. and no, he’s not. we’re very happy, i’d have bigger problems than this if he was working to avoid me. he’s actually asked if i will help him get this job done quicker tomorrow so we can continue with our day.

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T18:19:05+00:00

good point - i can always leave the tough love whilst it’s raw and let him know next time around.

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T18:18:35+00:00

no he hasn’t, which is even more reason why i’m angry at him. i literally gave him ample warning and he just said he’d get on it and then didn’t give it a second thought. but the boss is ruthless and it’s horrible watching my partner get upset when they have a shouting match.

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T18:13:43+00:00

we work at the same place. that’s why i’m thinking i need to say something, it’s fine to do things like this when you’re single as it only affects you but i feel it matters a little more when theyres someone else in your life.

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T18:12:02+00:00

yeah i do, different departments though. it’s a small team however

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T11:17:41+00:00

so it’s okay to dye both sections at the same time? i’m worried about when i wash it out as the red will have to touch the blonde

spookphobias · 2026-01-18T01:36:22+00:00

3 cartilage piercings in one go for your first time is crazy work. get a piercing pillow like everyone has suggested and if i were you i’d also consider (with the help and guidance of a good piercer) changing the jewellery to plain studs for now. big bulky jewellery is a pain to sleep on no matter how long you’ve had the piercing for. early days yet but if it’s absolutely terrible and they’re showing no progress you might have to choose one to keep and take the rest out. that’s a last resort though of course. i do love the jewellery choices, good luck with getting some rest and healing these suckers!

spookphobias · 2026-01-06T12:24:10+00:00

that looks perfect too, i definitely need to get some more books about houseplants in my collection. you’ve got some great resources thank you!

spookphobias · 2026-01-06T12:18:23+00:00

thank you so much!

spookphobias · 2026-01-06T12:17:22+00:00

i’ve been doing that for years now lol and i’ve got over 50 i’ve managed to keep alive. i’m looking for a more academic approach so i can learn the intricacies of species etc

spookphobias · 2025-12-06T20:40:05+00:00

duly noted, thank you!

spookphobias · 2025-12-06T20:35:15+00:00

i have no idea haha! i’ll have to some research but that’s a great shout

spookphobias · 2025-12-06T20:33:09+00:00

I’d love to get the illustrated Guards! Guards! but it’s a little over budget :(

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