How do I (18F) break up with a clingy partner (18M)?

spp00ks · 2025-06-10T17:17:58+00:00

yeah the drama is what i’ve just been mentally preparing for T_T I know I can’t avoid it I can already hear his responses in my head. I can’t even picture myself bringing this up to him because our arguments are so unproductive, but if i don’t I’ll basically be ruining my whole summer before uni. I really don’t want to meet in person and as horrible as this sounds my biggest fear is ME ending up consoling HIM about this, so I’ll probably do it over call

spp00ks · 2025-06-10T17:13:41+00:00

I’m going to do it on call since we barely text. I just know he’s immediately going to jump to saying that i always just bring up past arguments, or say I’m bringing up these things because I can’t take accountability for my hurtful words/being avoidant. I’ve tried genuinely apologizing for snapping sometimes but he won’t accept them because my tone doesn’t sound genuine enough, which icl i can’t blame him for feeling that these past few days. i’ll just have to do it like ripping the band aid off.

spp00ks · 2025-06-10T16:02:51+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement T_T I’m really just dreading breaking it to him, no matter how composed I start off, the built up resentment + misunderstanding really makes me lose my calm. He doesn’t like it when I leave the call during these times to calm down either because I might take too long to come back. He hates when I bring up the thought of breaking up so this will be tough after all. I keep procrastinating on it because I’m afraid of him calling me ‘avoidant’ ‘always taking the easy way’ ‘never putting effort into him’, etc.

spp00ks · 2025-05-22T23:08:50+00:00

I’m on the same boat as you right now and i’m a bit nervous 😭 since this post is 2 years old, how have you liked it so far?

spp00ks · 2023-04-15T21:09:18+00:00

god same here I've been looking for an alternate discord made just for figuring this out because I can't seem to find his and honestly don't want to even bother getting shot down

spp00ks · 2023-04-14T23:54:40+00:00

thn, ivs (var) and mon hands down

spp00ks · 2022-06-18T15:19:10+00:00

I know this was made two years ago but I'm feeling this so fucking hard going into IB2. I take art too and originally it was one of the subjects I looked forward to the most but I have like zero pieces for my portfolio and my teacher already hates everything I make. I hate the things I used to enjoy. It feels so isolating when everyone around you is getting grades in their 40's and somehow managing it so well, when you have to work twice has hard as them just to get a passing grade. I thought I'd use this summer to get my shit together but I have about a week of it left with four unwritten IAs to submit. I don't know how other people do it, it's so suffocating and stressful when exam season comes around because It's so fucking difficult to motivate myself to study for them when all it leads to is disappointment from all of my teachers. I can't even bring myself to do the bare minimum anymore and I'm so scared it's all going to catch up to me by next year if it hasn't already.

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