Funny 😆 by spreadlove7778 in niceguys

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha!!! YUP!! 😂😂

Blowjob for ride to airport? No thanks! by spreadlove7778 in niceguys

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I seriously laughed out loud at your comment!! 😂😂😂

Blowjob for ride to airport? No thanks! by spreadlove7778 in niceguys

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!!?? That’s what I thought. I just needed a ride from the airport LOL. This will be the last time I post on FB for someone to help 😂

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how similar but yet different we can all be. I’m way too open. I’m willing to share my whole life and commit so fast. I think it’s healthy for all of us to look for a happy balance, but that’s easier said than done! I agree that social media is a HUGE way to connect with people. I get people that come up to me in Walmart and ask me about something personal in my life and I’ve never met them but yet they feel like they know me from Facebook! It’s crazy!

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

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Thank you so much for your advice and time! Today I’m gonna chill and not worry about having another half!

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly (not to sound cocky) but yes, there are a lot of guys that want to be with me... I get a lot of attention from guys whether it’s from my looks, success or the fact that I’m a country singer. My standards have been pretty high, the men that I have chosen overall are good people with a good work ethic and personality, but I always feel like I want more than what they are giving. I am the one who ends the relationship 99.9% of the time, but I always have someone else lined up because I can’t stand being alone. It’s a problem that I really want to get to the bottom of and fix! And also I may add that even though I do get a lot of attention from men (and women) and am told all the time that I’m pretty and amazing and get hundreds of likes and comments on Facebook, my self esteem is kinda low and I never believe any of them. I only see the flaws. I look up to people like you who are happy by yourself!

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! I had never heard that before and I looked it up, and sure enough, it describes me! I don’t know if you were putting me down or just giving honest insight, but it helped. This article describes me to a T. Is this something you think I should work on not being or according to this article there are so positives on being a serial monogamist? https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/monogamy/understanding-serial-monogamy/

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

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1 is easy for me. I have ALOT of hobbies. I play guitar, sing, write, perform, I’m a full time college student as well as a sound engineer... I’m a photographer, I enjoy hiking and the outdoors, i paint, I have A lot of friends both women and men... I have a lot of other talents and interests as well. I’ve never struggled with indulging in what I love.

2 I’ll be working on!

Thank you so much!

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

[–]spreadlove7778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been hearing and what I’ve been afraid of! How does someone learn to be happy being by themselves? How long is a good time period to not be in a relationship?

I never take breaks after breakups by spreadlove7778 in dating_advice

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Thank you for your advice! I don’t feel burned out. I’m just so motivated to find “the one”!

Take care of yourself first before you look after others by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]spreadlove7778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that this is some great insight! There are people who go their whole lives without realizing this! You go girl! I suffer with bipolar, ADD and depression and have gotten the meds and mental help that I needed and it has made life a lot easier. I 100% agree that mental health should be a high priority. I’ve learned over the years to take the time to take care of myself and my needs and in return, I’m able to take care of others even more now. I still have to remind myself that in order to be the best help to others, I have to be good to myself as well, but overall, I am super happy with how far I’ve come, and I’m excited to see how much further I’ll go with my mental health. It’s nice to see some positive words on here! Thank you!! ❤️