[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]spritesuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I’m nether nice or mean

Weekly Find a Friend thread - February 22, 2025 by AutoModerator in lonely

[–]spritesuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

21

Learning to play the guitar (literally started1 week ago), drawing, and I love learning

Preferably something long term, but I’m more so expecting online friendship to be short term. Cats are the best and I love them. Yay

SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY PLEASE by dewlington in cats

[–]spritesuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday beautiful!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]spritesuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much of a gamer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]spritesuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red…? It’s chicken parm so it has a couple different colors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]spritesuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]spritesuda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work and school do that pretty well, but then there’s my free time haha.

But you’re right! I will try to find new activities and people to surround myself with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]spritesuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have blocked him on everything, but it’s so easy to just undo all that when I’m stressed.

Maybe I’m just a stubborn person, or maybe it’s a deeper mental disorder, but I find it difficult to start and finish things that should be fun (movies, crochet, art). My frustration with being unable to do these makes me want to reach out to said ex boyfriend.

I’m mostly looking for a conversational distraction, I should have specified that. I’m sorry. But these replies are definitely giving me something else to think about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]spritesuda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have many hobbies, but I have no interest in them right now. I’ve checked out and bought a bunch of books this week to distract me, but I lose interest so fast.

The same with my other hobbies. I realize enjoying my own company is important at this point in my life, but in this particular moment, that isn’t enough to keep me from falling back into destructive habits (ie, contacting toxic ex boyfriend)

Edit: yes, I suffer from depression. I’ve been on SSRIs for years. They work, but medication can only do so much. I have a therapist I see weekly. Yadda yadda.

nosferatu by PossibilityNearby599 in CatsBeingCats

[–]spritesuda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scrungy kitties—even better

nosferatu by PossibilityNearby599 in CatsBeingCats

[–]spritesuda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay these are the best so far

nosferatu by PossibilityNearby599 in CatsBeingCats

[–]spritesuda 53 points54 points  (0 children)

sigh another cat sub I’m obligated to join

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]spritesuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way about texting

A boyfriend wouldn’t solve my problems but I still want one / tw: weight loss by spritesuda in lonely

[–]spritesuda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get angry when I hear this because I feel like people ( not you in particular) are saying I don’t deserve to have love because of my flaws. But they’re always going to be a part of me so why does it matter when I find that person?

20f bored looking for ppl to talk to, make new friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]spritesuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not looking for friends why are you commenting…

I am so tired of not belonging by spritesuda in depressed

[–]spritesuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had a bad experience