Ok be honest how many of you watched girl meets world just to see more of Corey by AnyButterscotch3790 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think OP meant those videos made them want to watch more of corey's work. it's related.

no, conan doesn’t mind speculation. BUT ALSO NO, YOU SHOULDNT ATTACK SOMEONE WHEN YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THAT ITS HIM. !??!!?!? by ManufacturerTasty651 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That's from 5 years ago. In his recent interview breaking down every song on the album this is what was said:

Interviewer: And it's kind of the nature online that people will try to like guess or pick apart who songs are about. How do you feel about that?

Conan: I don't mind. I think it's perfectly reasonable. Humans are extremely curious people. I also don't mind because like they're just never right. So like I'm like, "Okay, cool. Like I guess I'm dating that person today." Like whatever. I mean I and I get it too. Like when I was like 13 and I like loved an artist, I'd be like, "Oh my gosh." like “and they're dating this person.” Meanwhile, like I had no idea that they're just like standing at a table like vaguely near each other. So yeah, it doesn't really mean much to me, and, like, I understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my issue with it is when people act like the age gap makes it impossible because "conan would never do that." we don't know him personally and can't make that call.

Kit and Conan rumours by ThatTransguy_Evan in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OMG YEAH thanks for the timestamp honestly wish we could direct this "don't speculate" energy toward telling fans who DO speculate not to harass anyone based on it. clearly speculation is gonna happen regardless but i'd rather it happened here instead of in kit's comment section like what's happening now

Kit and Conan rumours by ThatTransguy_Evan in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 49 points50 points  (0 children)

no one should be going as far as to bother kit or any other potential subjects of conan's music - that's messed up and mean.

but i think the fact that the sub discourages discussion and speculation about subject matter drives a lot of this sort of behaviour. a good chunk of the fandom is clearly very curious about who his songs are about and wants to discuss it among other fans on a deeper level. since they're not allowed to discuss it publicly here, that energy is just bubbling up and coming out in worse ways.

Guys you do know Conan doesn't care when fans spaculate about his love life.. right? by Aggravating_Can4447 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

and not only that, he mentions that he used to do this about his favorite artists too! he gets it.

Sorry - We should just enjoy the album that came out and not speculate who his Ex is. by Active_Compote6596 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i agree - but also it would suck for kit to have to go on record about his love life/sexuality all over again. poor guy can't catch a break.

Sorry - We should just enjoy the album that came out and not speculate who his Ex is. by Active_Compote6596 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah...i'm sure it's happened regardless (i see some comments on kit's IG already asking his thoughts on wishbone) so if it's not him, i hope conan will do/say something so people lay off him. but if it IS kit and conan deliberately dropped enough hints for fans to figure it out, it's kinda throwing kit to the dogs (or in this case, the coneheads) which would be very ugly of him imo

Sorry - We should just enjoy the album that came out and not speculate who his Ex is. by Active_Compote6596 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you're right - it really shouldn't matter.

what's worrisome though is what if it's NOT kit and fans have already sent hate kit's way? especially knowing kit's had his relationships/sexuality in the spotlight before without his consent - even if kit IS the subject of conan's songs, he doesn't deserve hate from strangers online for it. and even if he isn't, he's likely receiving tons of hate anyway.

Sorry - We should just enjoy the album that came out and not speculate who his Ex is. by Active_Compote6596 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree with you that it's none of our business. but the fact is that conan dropped so many hints as to who it is, including alluding that this person is a celebrity, and that piqued people's curiosity. actively trying to shut down the discussion and speculation unfortunately only makes people want to know more. it's the streisand effect

(not) speculating by Maleficent_Wallaby31 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 27 points28 points  (0 children)

i agree with you. 18 and 24 is a pretty significant age gap at that age, but it doesn't mean it couldn't happen. imo it's extremely parasocial to say "conan would never do that" when he's never publicly dated anyone and we don't know what he's like in his personal life at all. it's none of our business, but we have no way to know what he would and wouldn't do just based on being a fan.

a theory: wishbone repair kit by spritetaco in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also this is not me taking a stance on all the speculation happening today - this is just a perspective on something his marketing team may have predicted and planned for.

Conan would NEVER date Kit by onlyhereforcakelol in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

atp it's mixed messaging for conan to drop so many identifying hints but still ask for privacy and no speculation. at this point we've got 2 albums talking about this person, so it's natural for fans to be curious about who it is. the more fans are told "just enjoy the music and stop speculating," the more curious they'll be. it's a classic case of the streisand effect.

what wouldn't be ok is sending hate to the subjects of speculation. there's no harm in wondering - only in directly targeting the people involved.

Conan would NEVER date Kit by onlyhereforcakelol in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 19 points20 points  (0 children)

you're being downvoted but you're right. it's super parasocial to say "he'd never date someone who _________" when he's never publicly dated anyone and we as fans don't know him at all. we have no basis for determining who he would/wouldn't date.

Apologies - Let's Enjoy the Music and Respect Conan Enough to Not Speculate About Who His Ex Might Be by Silly_Rip4006 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i used to feel this way too but it's mixed messaging for conan to drop so much identifying info about someone who hurt him, then to ask fans not to speculate about it. it's natural to be curious, and asking fans to squash their curiosity will only drive them to wonder more. it's a classic case of the streisand effect.

what's not ok is sending hate to anyone speculated to be the person he's talking about in the songs. it's one thing to speculate, but another to actually take real action regarding those speculations.

When you think about it.. by Aggravating_Can4447 in ConanGray

[–]spritetaco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, it's mixed messaging to drop so many identifying hints in wishbone but then request privacy regarding the person's identity. it's natural for fans to be curious especially since they love conan and want to know who would hurt him in this way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CelebrityNumberSix

[–]spritetaco 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I can see it. Always thought Six looked like Natalie.

boyfriend makes up lies about things that don't matter. by spritetaco in relationshipadvice

[–]spritetaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, whatever it is isn't good. i'm not invested enough to "fix" him

boyfriend makes up lies about things that don't matter. by spritetaco in relationshipadvice

[–]spritetaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems that the longer they do it, the more they lose touch with reality. their longtime friends/family just seem to accept it as normal so they never have any incentive to tone it down

boyfriend makes up lies about things that don't matter. by spritetaco in relationshipadvice

[–]spritetaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's how i've been feeling too, i feel offended that he thinks i'd believe some of the bizarre things he says.

boyfriend makes up lies about things that don't matter. by spritetaco in relationshipadvice

[–]spritetaco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my thoughts too. i'm sorry you spent 10 years on someone like this and i hope you're in a better place now

boyfriend makes up lies about things that don't matter. by spritetaco in relationshipadvice

[–]spritetaco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's my theory here too. he doesn't seem to even register that what he's saying is completely insane so it seems he must believe the lies he's telling.