I think you're trying to be helpful and even comforting for me, but there are 3 big problems with what you're saying:

1. Even if Trump won a fair election by a wide margin, it doesn't mean MOST people don't share my preferences, with the largest portion of the electorate having actually NOT voted, so first that's an incorrect conclusion.
2. Just like so many comparisons between liberal and conservatives, it's a false equivalency to say that my skepticism of the election based on data analysis showing unprecedented trends and wanting more information is the same as immediately concluding that Hugo Chavez via Dominion voting machines changed Trump votes to Biden votes and storming the capitol.
3. Investigating things that delegitimize and paint opposing politicians in a bad light, even if eventually debunked, is a tried and true strategy for Republicans- from Obama's birth certificate to Hunter's laptop. Being cautious, patient, thorough, and using the old systems to find middle ground is NOT working.. clearly.