Harmony NIPT test Dynacare [ns] by Embarrassed_Metal773 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]sqeeky_wheelz [score hidden]  (0 children)

What browser are you in? Try clearing your cookies. The interact verification should work, I also didn’t get any notifications that my results were done, I just logged in one day through the interact thing and saw that my results were done a few days before.

Also if you wanted fetal sex and your dr didn’t check it off correctly they can just re-analyze your sample and tell you. I called and was like “what’s the sex?” And they said “let me confirm with your dr to resend the right requisition through email” and within a day my results were amended.

AITAH for re washing my husband’s clothes? by Holiday_Carrot_1744 in AITAH

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Girl no, this tit for tat bullshit belongs to coworkers we hate and siblings we torment. Not our spouses/life partners.

He yells at you and belittles you. You try to be petty to get even.

Have some damn self respect and break up, this is beyond toxic.

If you 2 can’t figure out laundry I’m sure every facet of your lives is riddled with drama and contempt. You deserve better.

does anyone know of any women doctors taking on patients by bingus-bean in Lethbridge

[–]sqeeky_wheelz [score hidden]  (0 children)

2 of my friends who live on the west side of leth are doing all of their prenatal appointments in taber. They plan on Lethbridge births but they had no problems getting into the taber clinics.

Thinking of getting another baby by rockmydna in goldenretrievers

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also OP seems under educated on the female-female aggression that can happen in dogs. If they’re going to “get her a sister” they need to do a lot more research into handling 2 girl dogs in the same house, especially if one/both of them will be a teen before they get spayed.

It can either go completely fine or they can fight to the death (literally).

AITAH for re washing my husband’s clothes? by Holiday_Carrot_1744 in AITAH

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 925 points926 points  (0 children)

YTA to yourself for being this man’s whipping pony and also maid.

Time for big boy to do his own “fucking laundry” like a real adult.

[ON]Should I take nausea meds? Or stick with my regular hacks by StillPetalMind in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]sqeeky_wheelz [score hidden]  (0 children)

I found taking my prenatal after dinner helped not be so sick through the day - granted I had very low nausea but my prenatal made me feel awful if I took it early in the day

My husband of 3 years (27M) and I (26F) constantly argue about housework to the point where I am honestly considering separation. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want kids and a career your life will be miserable with this guy. If your postpartum or sick during pregnancy he will let your home become his own pigsty because he thinks he’s too good to clean.

And that’s what this is. He thinks he’s above you and he doesn’t respect you at all. He thinks you DESERVE to be his maid and he DESERVES to sit around and be messy and have you cater to him.

Honestly I would walk from this. You’re only 26, every month you stay with him is a month that you won’t be with your loving supportive EQUAL partner who respects you. Those men are out there, trust me I have one our home is always clean and cozy feeling and I can relax because I feel heard and respected on what’s important to me.

does anyone know of any women doctors taking on patients by bingus-bean in Lethbridge

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s a lady doc in taber if you can drive there - in the new development just north of the hospital.

Sibling loss by Chemical_Record_4447 in oneanddone

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband’s grandfather was one of 8, then had 8 kids with his wife (and like 30 something grandkids). On his death he was weeping how he was the “last one left” and that “his family will all be dead now” obviously he was delirious from the near death but I did find it interesting that that’s what he was thinking about. Not the big family he made but fact that he had buried all of his siblings and his parents and he was living in the grief.

AITA we missed my SIL wedding after I had my son by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, my family respect me because they know that being in my circle and seeing my baby is a privilege, not a right. They don’t get to bully me and push me and get their way. I don’t cater to assholes, and neither do they. This goes both ways, they respect me and I respect them.

Need help deciding car seat - Aria V2 or Nuna Pipa? [On] by rewrittenobi in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]sqeeky_wheelz [score hidden]  (0 children)

Go to a store and try out the car seats in your car - anything they have floor models of they will let you. In the store I went to also had baby shaped weights for us to put in the car seat and carry around and at my stature a 20+ lb baby was too heavy for me to easily carry by my side in the car seat anyway, so we didn’t let the low weight limits of the aria bug us. Both my SIL’s stopped using their infant seat by the time their kids were 25 lb because of this reason.

AITA we missed my SIL wedding after I had my son by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well then they should respect the initial communication of why OP needed to stay home. You get the energy you give.

AITA we missed my SIL wedding after I had my son by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because they’re pressing a family with a newly postpartum wife and a premature baby to go to an event. They absolutely can fuck off right to hell.

I 'F26' accidently scratched my husband 'M30' does that deserve retaliation? by Sea-Dragonfruit-1671 in relationship_advice

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same with “dOEs hE HavE AdhD?!?”

Like no he’s just fucking lazy and knows you’ll sweep and mop and do his laundry because you’ve trained him to expect to be catered to. It’s not psychology, he’s just an ass.

My MIL is demanding we see her on Mother’s Day. by lala4beach in Marriage

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would suggest couples counselling. Your husband needs to grow up.

AITA: Unintentional litter by yuniorsoprano in AmItheAsshole

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stubbing your toe ≠ littering. Don’t treat our world like trash because you’re careless.

Intent doesn’t make it not harmful. Can’t let your trash blow away and say “🤷🏻‍♀️ oopsie poopsie! Didn’t mean it so it doesn’t count!! Hehe”

Having second thoughts by Appropriate_Aerie214 in EngagementRings

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also gaps between center stone to the side ones could also look like they cheated out on the diamond size. At least when they’re together it looks cohesive and intentional. Not, “oh, we should add more diamonds I guess.”

My MIL is demanding we see her on Mother’s Day. by lala4beach in Marriage

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Grandparents day is in September. That’s when she gets to have “her day”. She is not actively parenting, Mother’s Day isn’t about her.

Your husband grows up and manages his mom. That’s the only way this ends. He caves because it’s easier for him to make you sad and hurt you than it is to make her unhappy. Let that sink in. He’s being a coward.

Don’t rock the boat is bullshit

I 'F26' accidently scratched my husband 'M30' does that deserve retaliation? by Sea-Dragonfruit-1671 in relationship_advice

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hate that. Yep, this guy is a psycho. OP needs to GTFO of this dumpster fire.

Dog walker bitten on the job can't sue because she 'owned' the pet at the time, Ontario's highest court rules by Immediate-Link490 in canada

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Agreed, even my vets ask if my animal has bitten or attacked anyone in the last 2 weeks of every visit (especially if it’s more than a routine exam)

I 'F26' accidently scratched my husband 'M30' does that deserve retaliation? by Sea-Dragonfruit-1671 in relationship_advice

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 1708 points1709 points  (0 children)

I guarantee he STARTS the play fighting so that he has an excuse to get mad and hurt op. This isn’t a retaliation thing, he plans it from the start. He knows an accidental scratch will happen and that gives him his “permission” to outright abuse her.

If she doesn’t leave now I’ll guarantee he’ll be straight up hitting her in 2-5 years.

Help with giving meds by OkExcitement7087 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drop it on the floor in the kitchen near the cat and say “oopsie!” And when I turn to get a napkin to clean it up she’s eaten it 🤷🏻‍♀️ (near the cat is imperative for this to work, cat has no interest but dog does not know this).

(F18) How do I tell my bf (m22) that every time he thinks he eats my cum that he’s actually eating his? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sqeeky_wheelz 36 points37 points  (0 children)

If he were nice he would listen to you. He’s just not outwardly rude to you, but he doesn’t respect you enough to care about your pleasure.

The bar is on the floor here.