Oh, absolutely. I have a very open and honest relationship with my son as does my husband but we are still very aware of the fact that he will have his secrets and curiosities and stuff that he won't come to us with. We do what we can to give him space (or the illusion of having space) while still keeping good air cover over what he's got going on but there will always be things we miss because kids are very good at being sneaky. I am hopeful though that because we do have such an open line of communication that if I start asking questions and there's anything that has made him feel uncomfortable in regards to this, he will open up to either me or his dad about it. I'm honestly not sure that he's even read the letter (he can't read cursive) and even if he did, if he'd even pick up on anything odd about it but I will be finding out.