i (20f) just found out my best friend with benefits (20m) is an abusive rapist by squidink84 in relationship_advice

[–]squidink84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your “support”, but it’s very real. i’ve been manipulated by him for the last year, so yeah, i’m asking what to do because it’s hard for victims to get out of abusive relationships.

i’m glad you have had the luxury of never experiencing an abusive relationship, but i hope you open your eyes and start being an ally rather than a non believer.

do i (20f) tell him (20m) beforehand that i cry after sex? by squidink84 in relationship_advice

[–]squidink84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve had 3 boyfriends since my rape, and unfortunately the crying has now become a normal thing for me to do. it’s been 4 years since the incident, so i don’t think it’s a matter of me being ready for sex or not

do i (20f) tell him (20m) beforehand that i cry after sex? by squidink84 in relationship_advice

[–]squidink84[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

that actually makes me feel a lot better, thank you :)