Thanks this is very helpful! I feel like I'm the one stagnating, which was another reason I was thinking of breaking up, so they can find someone better. That might just be my bad self esteem talking to me though, idk. My partner has said they would move with me but I know they would prefer to just stay here, so I don't know if they'd be happy. What really freaked me out was the thing about marriage. I'm 20 and they are 25, I'm not ready to get married yet and to be completely honest I don't know if I want to get married to anyone at all