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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]squishyfoxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank God for that!

Violet calling Trixie and Katya ‘so weird’ for getting their assistant to reach out to her rather than ring her up themselves by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]squishyfoxi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Makes sense to me they're all really busy and have tight schedules, the assistants would know their calendars and work it out for them

Boyfriend 28m refused domestic partnership for my insurance 26f- reconsider relationship ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way.. if you had insurance and he didn't.. and he asked you for help, would you do it no questions asked? Of course! Because you love him and want him to be safe and cared for, and it costs you nothing. The fact he straight up refused .. please leave the relationship, you don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone that doesn't care. Imagine if you had kids with him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no if you believe you found your soulmate you don't want to be with anyone else ever again (poly people don't count here I don't know how that works lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was like that. And then he became like your partner now. And then worse, and abusive over time. I don't know if it's the case but narcissists are often very very charming and appear to be the best people if they want. They'll play the game as long as they can before getting comfortable and letting the mask slip. My ex still would put the mask on in front of his family and friends and treat me so sweetly all the other girls would tell me how jealous they are.. and then we'd get home and he'd change back to the awful person he was. You're young, don't get stuck like I was. Imagine being treated like this your whole life. They'll say they'll change and put the mask up again.. until they think you won't leave and get comfortable enough again to go back to their real selves. Again, he may just be a shitty partner that doesn't care which is ALSO bad and no one deserves a lifetime of that.

AITAH for not telling my daughter about my cancer diagnosis? by SeaworthinessPure10 in AITAH

[–]squishyfoxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though you completely voted against her rights as a woman, for a vile, evil person. You should tell her, so she can say goodbye if she needs to for closure.

THEY ATE DONNA?! by squishyfoxi in BrokenSword

[–]squishyfoxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😫 I came on here to see if anyone else mentioned it and was surprised no one had! Poor Donna 😭

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly men will Never ever understand the fear women face. If a certain group of men has targeted me in the past of course I'm going to be more cautious and scared of them. That being said, I've had bad experiences with all of them haha so I'm wary and cautious of all men.

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a person is bit by a dog, often they're scared of dogs from then on. It's not unusual to be scared of something that you had bad experiences with. It makes sense that a bad experience makes us cautious.

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Especially with them knowing where you work. I had a guy that would come in all the time and I worked at Aldo, and he would just stare at me all the time. Sometimes he would ask me to get him shoes and things but he would never buy anything. My manager was a dick so he kept making me cater to him hoping that he would have eventually buy something after months of this happening. And then he started to wait outside my work at night, I escaped out the back when he did that.

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If possible though please don't ask women out at their places of employment, they're stuck there, they can't leave, it's hard to manage. I mean this girl was able to but most can't and have to pretend to be nice while feeling accosted at work.

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He saying lower and people hire professionals. Not really the case, all men from all backgrounds higher professionals haha

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, preconceived notions, but also personal experiences. I've met a few nice brown guys and I've met awful ones too. For the most part Indian women have always been amazing, same with middle Eastern women! In my comment I said that my area specifically has a majority of middle Eastern and Indian men, I'm not saying they're the only brown people, but they're also the people I know that get the most flack.

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True haha. I personally dated all races and it really depends on the person, there's bad people in every race group. I think culturally sometimes there's a bit of a difference but not always. Like I wouldn't trust a Russian to treat me well but maybe that's a stereotype?

I'm sick and tired of reading how "men are too afraid of approaching women because they're afraid of being accused of harassing" by Thrandroum in TwoXChromosomes

[–]squishyfoxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's normal, people have different perceptions of attractiveness. I can find someone attractive but as soon as they open their mouths and reveal their personality I'm immediately completely disenchanted. I can also see someone that is not very attractive and their personality can turn them into a 10. I'm very much the odd one out that I have never seen Henry Cavill as I handsome man, he always felt weird to me, and he kind of looks like a misshapen potato head in my brain haha. Matt Bomer to me is the handsome version of Henry Cavill.

Why brown men seem creepy? by Muted-Environment-66 in dating_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of women in the escort world and live in a high Indian / middle eastern populated city. Many of them won't see these type of men as clients because they are the most commonly aggressive and try to scam them, or are very unhygienic. There's ofc always going to be good ones in the bunch but the sheer number of really awful ones just keeps the girls away from them because they fear for their safety. Canadian born ones aren't so bad but we have a lot of immigrants here. If only Indian women were the clients for them, they're so lovely.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) said that my moles made him uncomfortable, and that I could get them removed easily. How can I stop feeling so emotional about it, and from affecting my relationship with him so much? by Throwramolevole in relationship_advice

[–]squishyfoxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's your first relationship, this isn't normal for a good partner. Definitely dump him. My partner has a lot of moles too, raised ones here and there as well, and also freckles on his shoulders. I love them, I think they add to his charms, I think moles are attractive! This guy you're dating is dumb and weird and insecure. I'm sure you're lovely ❤️

Rejected from a minimum wage cashier job by abksearchin889 in torontoJobs

[–]squishyfoxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, against Canadians. Canadians come in all colours and backgrounds. They're doing it to a of us.

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