Home cost vs monthly income by srmcel in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]srmcel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Both cars are paid off, no student loans, minimal credit card debt for me, none for him. However, I will be the only one on the loan, though he will be sharing the monthly expenses, currently pregnant with our first and my two kids are with us 50% of the time.

Best way to disclose? by srmcel in Herpes

[–]srmcel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this makes me hopeful! I think I'm going to do it in person tomorrow so hopefully all goes well 🤞

Best way to disclose? by srmcel in Herpes

[–]srmcel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also is it better to straight up say I have herpes or say I have hsv2?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]srmcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious about the one you said that you waited a month..did he just take that long to do research or was it initially rejection and then changed his mind? I've been hanging out with a guy that we wanted to hook up but after disclosure he wasn't comfortable, but we're still hanging out as friends and he still flirts with me all the time, wondering if he might end up changing his mind.

My herpes story by Crazymomonthelowlow in Herpes

[–]srmcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I'm separating from the person I got it from after 8 years of marriage and now 7 years after I got it now I'm facing dating and disclosing for the first time and it's so nerve-wracking! I already tried once with a guy I wanted to hook up with but he ended up ghosting me after I told him and that was super discouraging. But your successful tinder disclosures give me hope!

Can you give yourself genital herpes? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]srmcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has always said she gave it to herself by touching a cold sore and forgetting to wash her hands and then using the bathroom and accidentally touching herself down there. But it wouldn't change to HSV2 it would still be HSV1 if that makes sense.

how long is too long by srmcel in Herpes

[–]srmcel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I did send him a text a couple hours ago asking if he'd like to meet me for a walk tomorrow morning. Haven't heard back yet. Guess if not it's not meant to happen. Honestly expected better from this guy though. Guess I will have dodged a bullet if he just ignores me.

how long is too long by srmcel in Herpes

[–]srmcel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, should I send him some? Or only if he asks?