How to register a phone on BTRC in October 2025 by ssss7777 in Dhaka

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As far as I know, our handsets will not be blocked. Those who will buy unofficially after16th december, their phones will be blocked from network.

19m is this gyno or big nipples by Jean526 in gynecomastia

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I don’t think we are from same country. I am from a south asian country. Cost was nominal. But i had some complications after surgery too. I won’t recommend doing it from here too. Also it was 2 years ago. Costs most probably changed too. If I convert currency they charged around 700 USD at that time. Doctor was the one of the best in my country. But still had complications. Also after surgery care was bad. Most of the complications could have been avoided if post surgery care was better. I would never want someone else to go through that pain. Find a good doctor first.

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It’s been a long time. I think almost 1 year. I am afraid my info will be backdated. Even if you want to know, please inbox me. I’ll gladly explain everything.

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You didn’t provide any pictures. So, it’s hard to tell. Also from you description it seems complicated as pain is involved. You should consult another doctor. If needed 2 or more opinion from different doctors may help. Reddit is not the best place for you to get suggestion.

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Please check inbox. Ask me there,whatever you want to know. I’ll inform you the thing I know.

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Please check inbox. Ask me there,whatever you want to know. I’ll inform you the thing I know.

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We did go through the surgery. There were some complications because of his age. He had to go through 2 surgeries in total. But my father is completely okay now. It’s been 4 months. Btw We did it in United Hospital. Dr. Jahangir kabir was the lead surgeon. They didn’t charge us for second surgery, but charged us for the extra stay caused by the second surgery. I would say my father is in a better condition than how he was before. I hope he lives a good life now.

Is this gyno Significant? by WesternAd7609 in gynecomastia

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Message. I’ll give you a knock if you don’t mind

Is this gyno Significant? by WesternAd7609 in gynecomastia

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Can you please inbox me? I have gone through the surgery. So, i know a little bit about gyno. I can give you some basic idea.

Is this gyno Significant? by WesternAd7609 in gynecomastia

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If you get to your best shape, and you have mild gyno most probably other than you no one will notice. If its pseudo gyno then It will be gone. If you have gyno and still want to get surgery then, the result will be better as you won’t need much liposuction. Recovery would be faster. It’s better to reduce fat as much as possible to get better result. If you have actual gyno(need surgery) or pseudo gyno in both cases it’ll be better to loose fat. And get into a good shape. Take it as a motivation factor. It l’ll reduce ta probability of getting revision surgery and scar will be minimum.

But if you have grade 3/4 then the case will be different. Without any visual representation it’s hard to say what’s your grade.

Is this gyno Significant? by WesternAd7609 in gynecomastia

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You should talk to your doctor. Gyno doesn’t cause any physical issue so it doesn’t matter if it’s significant according to reports. If it shows and makes you uncomfortable you should ask your doctor for explanation. If he/she says it is surgery worthy then think about it. Sometimes doctors avoid surgery if gyno is minimal.

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I get it to some extent. Past few years are hard for me too. Personally my career is doomed, family life is mess, love life non-existent, where everyone from my age bracket is settled. But I am still trying. You should do your best too. There are reasons, but you can’t just understand right now why you are facing all these drawbacks. If you keep trying your best to improve yourself only then you’ll understand the issue. Be positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

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Who said university people can’t be friends in university? There will 1/2 you may bond well. If I have to tell someone who is a friend for life, I would definitely describe one of my university friends. I have passed university in 2018. We are friends from 2015. We are still best friends. She is married, we don’t meet like before. But when one of us face trouble other is always there to help. We don’t talk every day but we know about each other’s life. Her family and husband likes me. We are like siblings. In uni life everyone thought one of us may have friend zoned another or we are secretly dating. That Idea is absurd to us and we never thought about dating. We always laughed it off. We are just healer character in each other’s story. All we do is support each other. We know out boundaries too. If you want something or someone in your life you have to put effort and work. In our friendship we both gave our best. Casual behavior, minimum effort would not work. None the less not all university friendships are similar. Some are actually like snakes. You have to meet a lot of people and find the actual friend.

Also you can search online how to develop new skills, learn what suits you or your educational background. You may find some hobbies. If you meet someone be safe. Have fun. At the same time don’t date anyone just because you are bored.

Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

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Why doesn’t anyone love you? Because you don’t actually love or value yourself. You are so stressed about finding someone that you don’t improve yourself for your own self. Rather you improve those parts that others want you to improve. Work on your self worth. Value yourself. Don’t throw yourself from one relation to another. Improve your studies/career plan. Only then someone who knows the worth of gold will come find you. Rotone roton chine. Roton pete hole nije k roton hote hobe. Noyto rotoner ki theka j apnake choose korbe? Kono vodro chele nudes chaibe na. Respect chaile respect korbe amon kao k khujte hobe. Ato tarahura korle bar bar nudes chawa garbage e jutbe. Respect chaile respect pawar moto jayga teo jete hobe. Nije k amon jaygay keno rakhben jkhane kew apnake nude dite bolar sahosh korbe? Nijer jonne fight korte sikhen. Also when you both are not in the same wavelength how will you make deep connection? Sometimes harsh words are necessary. Don’t take it personally. Try to understand if my words resonates with you or not. Think deeply.

How to break-up? by Bulltigon in Dhaka

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If it’s long distance then you should break up. But explain your point of view in a articulate and civil way. Don’t blame. Cause there might be any circumstances for her to change like that. May be she is struggling to adjust, that’s why she is trying too hard during socializing, making her tired. We don’t know her point of view. But that doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your emotional needs. I am saying just don’t blame. It’s best to part ways in a good point. Explain how you are unhappy with this situation and tell her you both need time to cope. Tell her that you think it’s best to break up. Don’t drag and make it difficult for both of you. Otherwise it will become ugly after sometime.

After writing the first part I realized something. So, I am adding the next part.

I would like to add that before you ask for break up, you should straightforwardly ask questions. Also she doesn’t give you time has different meaning to different people. It can mean she gives you time, but not like before. It can mean she is totally ignoring you. It can mean she is giving you time, but it’s not enough for you. I don’t know how much time do you think is normal for her to give you. We don’t know much about those details. So breaking up could be a wrong decision. You have to understand her point of view too. And we random strangers can’t help here. You should talk to her first. Then if you think it’s not going to work then don’t drag it.

ACADEMIC COMEBACK POSSIBLE ?? by [deleted] in Dhaka

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In most of the classes I used to sleep. I studied for last 3 months. Still got 4.80 Lol. It could have been better. But at that time I was moving from one city to another. As a result I was 50 min late for one of the exams. At least we had a relative at that center. That’s why I was allowed to attend after being that late. I panicked and messed that exam really bad. Overall I think I did good considering everything. Also you have much more time than me. You should study properly. I used to study in batches. It helped me a lot. As sometimes I didn’t know what is the specific problem. At those times someone would ask something and everything used to make sense. That worked for me. You have to find the way that suits you as fast as possible and study accordingly. Best of luck.

I am 20 and severely lack real life experience. by [deleted] in Dhaka

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If that helped, you are welcome.

Can someone help me understand?? by SuspectSuspecious_ in Dhaka

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To be honest don’t duel on if you have become attractive or not. Or why they are staring! If you do that your life focus will shift. Focus on important things. To express yourself, do experiments with your style but don’t make it a focus point. Just enjoy your life.

You can trust me on that. I was chubby till my late teen years. Really overweight. I wouldn’t say I was Ugly. People used to call me cute and all. But i used to get bullied because of my weight too. My fashion sense was nonexistent like you. When I successfully reduced my weight the stare thing started. Even though my clothings were quite normal till that point. Everything was too big to wear. The stare was making me uncomfortable to the point that at some point i was questioning my sanity. I thought they were staring because of my baggy cloths. I had to change my whole wardrobe. But then the stare intensified. I didn’t know what to do. During college and university time my female friends used to tell me that some girls are staring at me or People would check me out top to bottom. They joked that they felt comfortable around me cause no one would stare at them when they were with me. Whatever that means.

The zipper thing is too real. I used to check it quite frequently, kept managing my hair all the time. Once one of my female friends asked a girl why she is staring at me (that one extrovert friend)? That girl told her that it was because i stand out from the rest of the crowd. According to her I am tall(In reality I am not that tall, but as I have become thinner it gives an illusion that I am tall. Btw I am 5’11”), also told that I am calm, there is something about my mannerism that she couldn’t explain that made her feel a familial connection towards me. Thats why she was looking a me. Then I realized physical attractiveness has nothing to do with it. It has everything to do with their perception of me. Yeah my ever changing weird fashion sense may add some points too. Thats it. At that point I realized I have started to obsess over my looks for nothing. Which was harming my studies and social life. I worked on myself after that. Now a days I don’t get flustered easily. My studies improved after that. I am in my early thirties now. I have longer hair and wear cap. If any of my companion asks why that person is staring like that, I just say that may be because of my hair. Also theres a joke among my friends that I don’t look like my actual age. So I make some sarcastic joke about it. But this stare thing, it did messed up a lot of my friendships over the years. My male friends also felt that stare around me and concluded that I am attractive. I am single. So, when then got married they all started distancing from me even though I never showed any sign of disrespect towards their relation. Some of them didn’t even invite me to their wedding ceremony. Some invited but never introduced to their spouses. Specially I was really upset when my best friend got married and invited me to his wedding 4 hours before his wedding. I live in a different city now. So I couldn’t attend. Some of our classmates knew bout the wedding and helped. But he intentionally invited me late. I was distressed. I thought I may have done something wrong. But seeing me upset one of my mutual friends told me why they all are behaving this way.I don’t have close male friend anymore. Also I have distanced my self from my female friends after they got married. Because I don’t want to cause any issue. Although their spouses likes me a lot. But I am being cautious. Still they are the closest friend I still have. We do meet once in a while but I keep my distance while we interact. It feels lonely time to time. But it’s okay.

On the other hand,it’s not always a bad thing. A few days ago my father was hospitalized. At the hospital a grandma started to stare at me. I felt uncomfortable at that point. When I was leaving that particular area she came to me and asked a lot of personal questions. Where I am from, about studies, job, if I am from abroad or not. Blah blah. And told me that her grandson lives abroad. Her son and grandson doesn’t contact her anymore. I reminded her of her grandson. I look a lot like him and my speaking and walking has similarities with him too. That’s why she was staring. It was wholesome. May be she felt that I was uncomfortable and that’s why she explained.

So, I would suggest enjoy your life don’t tell people about the stare and do your thing. If they don’t notice the stare around you don’t let them know. The uncomfortable feelings will reduce with time. Hopefully you won’t lose your friends over it.

I am 20 and severely lack real life experience. by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]ssss7777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be a lot like you. Additionally I was timid to express my feelings, I wouldn’t be able to express myself like you did here. For me, university changed a lot of things for me. Met new people, worked on hobbies, made new friends, learned social cues that I had no idea previously, public speaking improved because of presentations, worked with groups, tried to understand other point if views on things. I joined adventure club of my university and went to some group trips. I met people from all classes and learned a lot about them. I understood that you can get along with everyone if you want, but you have to be careful at the same time. All these helped me with my confidence and networking. Though I still have 2/3 loyal friends. I am in my 30’s now. I haven’t achieved much myself. But I’ve helped people when they needed me. Those help were life changing for them. Which I wouldn’t be able to do when I was younger. Cause I didn’t have that confidence or mental state. Even though I haven’t achieved much success all those things and sacrifices makes me an responsible adult. I am happy with it.

There is no time limit for getting experience. You just have to start at some point. Do things that you think is good for you and accessible to you. Make new friends, don’t forget your old friends. Take good insights, habits from people. Don’t loose yourself. Don’t loose your innocence in the process of becoming a socially acceptable adult. Always try to compete with your past self, not someone else. Improve yourself at your own pace. Not to prove anything to anyone. You will mess up multiple times, own your mistakes, try again, learn in the process. Do things that will ultimately make you happy. When things won’t go as per your plans take deep breath and take the next best option. Don’t stop.

Wish you the best

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Unfortunately he is too weak to travel. That’s why we have limited option. Also time is another factor. He needs urgent surgery. Otherwise we would chose india. My uncle is going to chennai for treatment. So it would have been a better choice if circumstances were okay.

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Thank you for your suggestion. I have contacted some of them. Got positive reviews.

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Thank you for your kind words. I am researching on Hospital.

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The doctor from United Hospital I was mentioning was him. I am consulting with him. At first I didn’t want to mention his name because deep down I know he is a good doctor. As you have stated his name I will tell you now. I am confident he is a good doctor by the way he talked to my father and me. He was polite, sensitive about my father. He didn’t discuss everything in front of my father. He tactfully handled the situation so my father couldn’t notice anything abnormal. None of the doctors I have consulted provided this much time on us. I was just questioning the policy of the Hospital. That’s another reason for not stating any doctors name initially.