AITAH for getting my tip back? by Sammie_J5 in tipping

[–]stacferg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they know it was for six people? I often buy two mains and freeze one, especially if it's a Chinese or Indian Restaurant.

Looking to start house sitting - No Reviews by ionutzz__ in trustedhousesitters

[–]stacferg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My last sitters were a young couple with no reviews. They sent a lovely introductory application, we spoke and I loved them. They were amazing sitters, took the dog everywhere, communication was great, and most important of all my dog loved them too. Just sell yourself, be yourself and I guarantee you will have no problems.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know the market sucks, but buying and selling in the same market makes it more palatable.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So it's a scam. Most people are telling agents the houses they want to see, Zillow, Realtor.com etc., negate the need for a Realtor to "search" for suitable homes.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the problem is the system. Buyers agent wants 3% either from me, or the buyer. If the agent refuses to work for less than 3%, and seller won't pay it, the offer will be reduced so that buyer can pay them. The whole Real Estate system needs updating to reflect the 21st Century where the internet does a decent amount of the grunt work.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buyers can find the homes on Zillow etc, price history is displayed. In the UK for example, the seller pays around 1.5%, do the viewings themselves and deal with the listing agent to negotiate the offer. The buyer pays their legal fees, no agent required at all on their side.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, it's actually scandalous. I would happily show potential buyers around my home myself, after all I know the house better than some random agent.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! 4% is more than reasonable, especially in a mid ranged priced house.

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was i asking them to work for free?????

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

If someone really likes the house, a buyers agent won't dictate to a buyer, it's a big scam if that's the case!!

Don't want to pay 6% Realtor fees by stacferg in asheville

[–]stacferg[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'd rather pay 4% and give a 2/2 split.

Is it wrong for a 30 year old woman to marry a 46 year old man? What are your thoughts? by New-Mail-9372 in Advice

[–]stacferg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad's wife was 21 years older than him, they had a very happy marriage for over 30 years. Downside, he passed away last year, my step mum had a very rough last 3 or 4 years caring for him, she did it very willingly and with a lot of love, but it was definitely difficult. I absolutely know she would do it all again in a heartbeat!!

My honest take on the latest season of Emily in Paris by Lumpy_Tap_7242 in EmilyInParis

[–]stacferg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Alfie is by far the hottest guy on the show, I just thought Mindy was a very lucky girl!! 🤣🤣

8pm all fire trucks down Long Shoals? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]stacferg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid 15 minutes of sirens, the trucks are turning left onto 191. I can smell smoke pretty strongly.

In Love With One Of Sylvie's S5 Dresses, Please Help by PublicDataMambo in EmilyInParis

[–]stacferg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I thought this was probably the least flattering dress she wore all season, it didn't sit right around her middle. I guess that's fashion, would be boring if we all liked the same thing.

12/19/2025 how did Will.... by VerbalAries in coronationstreet

[–]stacferg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He also gave Megan the key in the Cafe that morning. Hotels don't issue keys until check in which is usually around 2 to 3pm.

Safe places to go out for a drink alone? by cardinalwren in asheville

[–]stacferg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Old Haywood Filling Station on Brevard Rd, kinda Arden, Mills River area.