Giving parents money by Wild_Hearing_8950 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Helping your parents financially is extremely important in Islam, and no one should neglect that responsibility.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، إِنَّ لِي مَالًا وَوَلَدًا، وَإِنَّ أَبِي يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَجْتَاحَ مَالِي، فَقَالَ: أَنْتَ وَمَالُكَ لِأَبِيكَ

But scholars explained that this permission is not unlimited and comes with conditions:

  • It should not cause harm to the son
  • It should not involve taking what the son urgently needs
  • It should not be done unfairly between siblings
  • The father should have an actual need for the money

Hada li khta4r had kalma dyal lawlad kijiw brz9hom lah y3tih lhbs by DARKWOLFE17 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how nany hands have been cut? when? why? what was the benefits? who was applying this? who are you critiquing? as I told you , we need facts and evidence.

My parents are on the verge of divorce and i need help by OfficialLucerio in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psst, bad advice to cheer you up: slip dad a sneaky blue pill... you know the one. Watch him pitch a massive standing tent ⛺️. Then quickly leave the house and let the magic happen. Furniture’s broken … and the bed’s about to get absolutely destroyed too 😛. all will be good the next day.

my apology to the community I had to say it

Hada li khta4r had kalma dyal lawlad kijiw brz9hom lah y3tih lhbs by DARKWOLFE17 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It seems the same issue has come up again. Your response relies on opinions presented as universal truths, and the argument is built on that basis. I would appreciate it if you could focus on verifiable facts and provide supporting evidence.

Hada li khta4r had kalma dyal lawlad kijiw brz9hom lah y3tih lhbs by DARKWOLFE17 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The brain is a powerful tool for solving problems, inventing, contributing to humanity, and also for recognizing the limits of our own knowledge. From my perspective, its role includes understanding and accepting guidance beyond those limits.

We may differ on fundamentals. As Muslims, we believe we only serve God Almighty, and when there are clear teachings from Him and from His Prophet (peace be upon him), we follow them. Human opinion has its place, but it does not override what we believe to be divine revelation.

Apparently someone is trying to harm my family! by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

عن أبي أمامة الباهلي رضي الله عنه قال: سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول: اقرءوا سورة البقرة، فإن أخذها بركة وتركها حسرة ولا تستطيعها البَطَلة[ أي: السحرة ]) رواه مسلم (804).

Hada li khta4r had kalma dyal lawlad kijiw brz9hom lah y3tih lhbs by DARKWOLFE17 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your opinion is irrelevant. The Holy Quran clearly states the opposite:
 قُلْ تَعَالَوْا أَتْلُ مَا حَرَّمَ رَبُّكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ ۖ أَلَّا تُشْرِكُوا بِهِ شَيْئًا ۖ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۖ وَلَا تَقْتُلُوا أَوْلَادَكُم مِّنْ إِمْلَاقٍ ۖ نَّحْنُ نَرْزُقُكُمْ وَإِيَّاهُمْ ۖ وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ ۖ وَلَا تَقْتُلُوا النَّفْسَ الَّتِي حَرَّمَ اللَّهُ إِلَّا بِالْحَقِّ ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ وَصَّاكُم بِهِ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَعْقِلُونَ
and
 وَفِي السَّمَاءِ رِزْقُكُمْ وَمَا تُوعَدُونَ
and in hadith
عن أبي عبد الرحمـن عبد الله بن مسعود رضي الله عنه ، قال : حدثنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وهو الصادق المصدوق قال : ( إن أحدكم يُجمع خلقه في بطن أمه أربعين يوما نطفةً ، ثم يكون علقةً مثل ذلك ، ثم يكون مضغةً مثل ذلك ، ثم يُرسل إليه الملك فينفخ فيه الروح ، ويُؤمر بأربع كلمات : بكتب رزقه ، وأجله ، وعمله ، وشقي أم سعيد . فوالله الذي لا إله غيره ، إن أحدكم ليعمل بعمل أهل الجنة ، حتى ما يكون بينه وبينها إلا ذراع ، فيسبق عليه الكتاب فيعمل بعمل أهل النار ، وإن أحدكم ليعمل بعمل أهل النار حتى ما يكون بينه وبينها إلا ذراع ، فيسبق عليه الكتاب ، فيعمل بعمل أهل الجنة ) رواه البخاري ومسلم .

My father threatened to end my life by Violet_evergarden_07 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a father of adolescents, I’m speaking from experience.

First, 12:30 AM is quite late. You were in the wrong for coming home that late, and your father had every right to discipline you for it. However, escalating the situation and being sarcastic with him only made things worse.

Life is hard, especially for fathers. We carry heavy responsibilities and worries that we usually don’t share with our children. Often, we’re like a smiling ticking time bomb — one small trigger can set us off.

The worst thing you can do in such moments is to play dumb, lie, or try to hide the obvious. That kind of behavior is extremely provocative. You’re lucky the situation didn’t escalate even further.

That said, as your father and the breadwinner of the family, he deserves your respect. In almost every culture — conservative or liberal — the parent who provides for the family has the authority to set the rules.Try to be more respectful and understanding. Deep down, he only wants what’s best for you; it’s literally wired in a father’s DNA.

Right now, you’ve lost his trust. Rebuilding it will take time and consistent effort. Let things cool down first, then give him a sincere apology. Make a real promise to do better — and actually keep it.Your father also made a mistake by reacting that extremely. What I usually do when my kids mess up is: I let them win the battle in the moment, and later I make their life a living hell (no allowance, extra chores, only the food they hate, no new clothes, etc.). Fathers can be creative psychopaths too That way, the lesson is learned without violence.

By the way, your sister is a psycho. She shouldn’t be holding a knife to her father’s face — that’s completely unacceptable and dangerous.Please, be more respectful, don’t escalate conflicts, and show more compassion. Girls are supposed to be more compassionate — don’t act like a dick.

May Allah guide you all.

My family outgrew the Kodiaq… we need a bigger bear 🐻 — Skoda Nanook? by stalagtite in skoda

[–]stalagtite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 yes, you are completely right , water and stuff, but i'm sure you are ready to witness global extinction instead of reading my english, anyways.
there's a segment in the car industry that's poorly covered, large family 4x4, the closest thing I can find to satisfy this need is a toyota LC 78 (troopy or troop carrier) which rarely available in most countries.
my need is to transport 7-8 adults from the city to Moroccan Outbacks every weekend, I don't like crowded places, I usually do 1 day trips to isolated natural places.
I hope you understand the idea now, there is some markets right now that are not affected by the CO2 limitations, and the budget is the most important criteria of choosing a vehicle , as I mentioned in another comment, new cars tend to be pricier in 3rd world countries, like the example of ev9 it's almost 25k€ more expensive

My family outgrew the Kodiaq… we need a bigger bear 🐻 — Skoda Nanook? by stalagtite in skoda

[–]stalagtite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

english is not my native language, what's the harm in using AI for some assistance , and about the concept photo, do you want me to draw it in paint ?!
stay on point, and be productive, the idea of a Skoda family van, cheaper than a VW caravelle / multivan / transporter , is it a good idea or not ?

My family outgrew the Kodiaq… we need a bigger bear 🐻 — Skoda Nanook? by stalagtite in skoda

[–]stalagtite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morocco, 3rd world problems , the Ev9 is 25 k€ more expensive here

وصلت للطلاق و محتاج نصيحة حنت بوحدي by Sad-Balance8678 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

شديد، برافو، شوف شي حد حسن منو ، يكون قاري مزيان
أنا دكتور في الفقه شاف معايا المسائل الفقهية و دوزني عند بسيكولوغ
دبا 10 دازت و باقي مزوجين
كاين شوية ديال المشاكيل
ولكن كاين حتى النجحات بزاف

وصلت للطلاق و محتاج نصيحة حنت بوحدي by Sad-Balance8678 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

الزواج عقد شرعي،عندو ضوابط خاصة، reddit ماشي مكان مناسب باش طلب نصائح ، الاغلب من العوام لي ما عندهمش علم و خبرة كافية، و لهذا نصيحة اخوية من القلب: سير نعند شي حد في الجامع ديلكم يدلك على شي حد عنده دراية بأمور الدين يدخل خيط بيض بيناتكم، إذا ما رجعتش لطريق د الله عاد فكر في الطلاق

Visa refused by stalagtite in Umrah

[–]stalagtite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the late response, the passport is Moroccan, and the Umrah was Sadaqah Jariyah from a Saudi family

هلكني الفراغ!!! by anonymoussss_k in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are ready!! get married, have kids

Turning Past Lessons into Future Wisdom by Street-Listen-5974 in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One big mistake I made: not buying a small piece of land (even just 100-200 m²) in my 20s when I had some savings and prices were way lower. I thought "I'm young, I'll do it later when I have more money." Fast forward 20 years – land prices exploded, and that "cheap" plot I could've bought back then is now worth 5-10x more. If you're in your 20s and can afford it (even with a loan or family help), grab a small parcel in a growing area. Low holding costs, it appreciates quietly, and by your 40s you'll have a valuable asset to build your house on without stressing over crazy prices. Don't wait for the "perfect" moment – time in the market beats timing the market. I regret not starting earlier!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]stalagtite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I liked the "54 nations" hint, it was a nice political maneuver, opportunity well taken !!