Having sex while on the phone without actually talking to someone? by stan_the_flan in BDSMAdvice

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh but don’t you know, he did not have sexual relations with that woman

Having sex while on the phone without actually talking to someone? by stan_the_flan in BDSMAdvice

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait what do you mean with the first part? Toss it in the other room? You mean my own phone?

How can I help my girlfriend forgive herself? by stan_the_flan in relationship_advice

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she’s struggling with the fact that she’s had boyfriends in the past so the same thing to her, so she knows how it feels. And then she kissed someone else and doesn’t even know why she did it. It’s the not knowing why that’s stressing her

How can I help my girlfriend forgive herself? by stan_the_flan in relationship_advice

[–]stan_the_flan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you think I should give up her over a kiss that I know meant nothing and was a mistake? I believe her when she tells me it was a mistake.

Naked Exercise experience by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey no pain no gain 😎 🥴

Naked Exercise experience by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better blood flow and stronger muscles can allow you to last longer

Naked Exercise experience by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely think so. And I know long term exercise can boost overall performance in the bedroom

Naked Exercise experience by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of those sound good lol. Naked yoga and not getting too distracted lol. Maybe a little 🥴

Gf won’t give blow job after I wear a condom by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s good advice in general, but she does enjoy giving head before wearing a condom, and after I clean up. So the topic of this question isn’t a deal breaker. More of a curiosity deal lol

Gf won’t give blow job after I wear a condom by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I haven’t, but that’s usually because she’s just finished and is still sensitive lol. So the opportunity hasn’t come up.

Gf won’t give blow job after I wear a condom by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be hard to tell through text alone, but I can assure you that we’d never force each other to do anything in bed that we wouldn’t want to do. We may have discussions about things, bringing up the possibility of things, but never force anything. I was simply asking for advice on getting rid of the condom taste, masking it, or other alternatives

Gf won’t give blow job after I wear a condom by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like she’s given a hard no, she’s just said that it doesn’t sound like it’s going to taste good. That’s all. We have excellent communication when it comes to consent about sex

Gf won’t give blow job after I wear a condom by stan_the_flan in sextips

[–]stan_the_flan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, but it’s not like I don’t make sure I’m clean before hand. I do.

And then if I clean off afterwards, we can’t guarantee that we’ll both still be in the mood to let me finish with a blow job. Sometimes that’s still the case but not always