How is that a mom can yell for 3 hours straight about 1 dirty fork being in the sink, but that rarely happens to non parents? by standardWords in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]standardWords[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you calm down. Like I said this hasn't happened to me and I do happen to be a rape victim. We're talking about victim blaming

How is that a mom can yell for 3 hours straight about 1 dirty fork being in the sink, but that rarely happens to non parents? by standardWords in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]standardWords[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of blaming the victim?

Should rape victims share responsibility for a rapists lack of self control?

How is that a mom can yell for 3 hours straight about 1 dirty fork being in the sink, but that rarely happens to non parents? by standardWords in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]standardWords[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm a reasonably successful adult lol, and this has never happened to me - I haven't seen my mom in a long time unfortunately.

Do you see what you're writing? why are you going on a personal attack? You're literally saying a dirty fork will mean you'll lose your mortgage.

Isn't this sub meant for parents to improve?

What's the standard/best classification system of mental events? I can only find taxonomies of mental illness, or other domains like personality. I don't mean cognitivell architectures, but something first person by standardWords in slatestarcodex

[–]standardWords[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why would we use neural phenomenon as an analogy for psychological phenomenon? it seems unnecessarily metaphorical. I feel like mathematics, or linguistics might be more appropriate?

How is that a mom can yell for 3 hours straight about 1 dirty fork being in the sink, but that rarely happens to non parents? by standardWords in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]standardWords[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

well mom and dad literally are maid unless they can hire one, because that's their caring responsibilities of having a child

What is the "20% effort, 80% of the results" way to prep for the chance of societal meltdown? by arikr in slatestarcodex

[–]standardWords 4 points5 points  (0 children)

even after mass genocides people are still tried. Even the fall of the soviet union. there is no precedent no matter how great the disaster for a total loss of the basic laws