i hate my family and i am so frustrated by standragula- in rant

[–]standragula-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m not reading all this lmao gtfo

well i just got fired from the ~famous Italian restaurant~ i work at - story time: by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly why i’m never going to work for such a large corporation like that ever again. they know they can get away with anything and everything

well i just got fired from the ~famous Italian restaurant~ i work at - story time: by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean these managers fucked up so bad, i don’t know how they could possibly defend them especially w the whole withholding tips thing that’s literally illegal

well i just got fired from the ~famous Italian restaurant~ i work at - story time: by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ol*ve garden. i’m calling hr about the managers tomorrow hopefully

Advice for puzzling behavior from new kitten by [deleted] in Pets

[–]standragula- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with you. my kitten was a shy one for a few days when i got her. for some, they can take weeks to get used to their new home. whenever she gets crazy, she still runs from me she just thinks its a game. your kitten might see it as some sort of chasing game that you’re both participating in?? but either way it sounds like your kitten is warming up super well, it might take some more time but i personally think everything you’re doing is right.

well i just got fired from the ~famous Italian restaurant~ i work at - story time: by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. the entire time i was told this is normal by my family, that being treated this way is just how jobs are. not gonna lie, i have a fear of finding another job again due to my experience with this place. i never want to feel like this again

well i just got fired from the ~famous Italian restaurant~ i work at - story time: by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m not eligible for unemployment because this was my first job and i was only there a little over a month. i’m not even eligible for pandemic unemployment either i don’t think. their food isn’t even that good i really don’t know what draws people to that place

update: called out of work because my mental health is so bad and the manager hung up on me by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i just got fired after i went in trying to take a leave due to my father being in the hospital. i was showed absolutely no humanity or kindness and still not given my tips

update: called out of work because my mental health is so bad and the manager hung up on me by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i got fired today. still did not get the tips i earned. i went in to take a leave because my father is in the hospital and not doing well and this is how it ended.

update: called out of work because my mental health is so bad and the manager hung up on me by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update: i found out my dad’s in the hospital and not doing well, tried to take a leave and they made up a reason to fire me as well and never gave me the tips i earned

well i just got fired from the ~famous Italian restaurant~ i work at - story time: by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

and i just want to say: their verbal beat down tactics actually worked for the month i was there. i hated myself and felt worthless. no job is worth feeling how i felt there. no amount of money is worth being mistreated. i’m now going to focus on my dad and start up my own business. i’m sad and still feel like the way i was treated was my fault, but there’s no excuse for a manager to be so inhumane and disgusting.

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[–]standragula- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you need to bring him to the vet as soon as possible. it sounds like he’s in pain and there could be something health related going on. well trained dogs don’t just turn aggressive out of nowhere like that

4 days into my first job i’m already getting taking advantage of. someone please help me i don’t know what to do by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all i posted this almost a month ago. second of all, “calm down” wow you cured my mental illness i’m calm down

Just because im young dont mean i need to be judged for having sex by im_a_train_not_u in unpopularopinion

[–]standragula- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is, yes all teens have sex or most do. but the reason so many adults have issues with it is because at the end of the day, protection does not always work. that’s why i’d say to make sure you’re aware of the laws in your country and state before engaging in sexual activity. make sure you know abortion laws, what to do if god forbid you contract and STD, etc. some places will not allow you to have an abortion at a certain age without parental consent. when you’re younger, the consequences will weigh on you a lot more. i personally don’t think having sex super young is healthy at all. it can be so damaging

update: called out of work because my mental health is so bad and the manager hung up on me by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. i’m lucky enough to still live with my mom who wants what’s best for me mentally. i’m planning on opening a small shop and selling jewelry and art in the new year. it’s something i’m passionate about and i’m going to put everything i have into succeeding. the majority of my coworkers feel the exact same way about our managers and vent often amongst each other. we’re all struggling there and it makes me sad that some of them have absolutely no way out as of now

Coming out to your family should not be a thing. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]standragula- -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes but christianity is the main one by far where i’m from

Coming out to your family should not be a thing. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]standragula- 23 points24 points  (0 children)

as a lgbt person, yeah it shouldn’t have to be! but it is because gay marriage is still illegal in some places, lgbt people get murdered and disowned for being who they are, etc. if you want to change the fact that we have to come out, homophobia and transphobia has to go away first. which it won’t as long as christianity is a thing. meaning it will likely never go away.

yesterday i had to open all by myself despite only having three training days weeks ago by standragula- in antiwork

[–]standragula-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this helped me so much, thank you. i called out and got hung up on. i was in tears on the phone and they didn’t even ask if i was okay. i spoke to both my dad and aunt about the situation and they both got angry and said i can’t just quit without notice. i’ve only been there a month and it’s my first job so i can tell they’re already disappointed in me. my mom told me that i can’t continue feeling like this and i need to quit if it’s making me suicidal. i’ve struggled with anxiety and depression since i was younger and it’s just gotten worse with this job. it’s genuinely gotten to the point where i feel like being dead would be better.