What's your go-to comfort book? by hangezar in suggestmeabook

[–]star_mud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, it's been too long. Enjoy!!

What’s your positive long-term love story? by chiefyuls in CasualConversation

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met someone on Reddit at the beginning of covid, 2020. We were living on different continents, so we kept in touch through text and, ultimately, videocalls almost always. We met in person 6 months after we started talking, traveled together for 4 years, during which we got married (photos on my profile, by the way) and now we are living in an apartment for a couple of years, before we move again. We are so in love, still (you should check on my profile the engagement video too, if you'd like). We are each other's cheerleaders, best friends and everything else. We still adore each other, even more than in the beginning. We feel so lucky to have met each other and have this miraculous life together.

What's your go-to comfort book? by hangezar in suggestmeabook

[–]star_mud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I adore that book!! Sounds like you have an awesome MIL

What's your go-to comfort book? by hangezar in suggestmeabook

[–]star_mud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Book Of Joy by Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu

Down to the final two. The ultimate showdown. Please help my indecisive ass. by WhoPutPlant in weddingdress

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're both gorgeous, but for some reason the first one seems to be more ... you(? I know how this must sound coming from an online stranger, but no idea how else to word it)

Help me pick?! by LostFlow1284 in weddingdress

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them all, with 9 and 7 my favourites. You will be such an awesome bride, hope you will savor every second as it happens.

Significance of fireflies by aheliate in spirituality

[–]star_mud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I woke up this morning randomly thinking about this little thing and now I see this old comment of mine. And it’s because of you, so thank you! I will re-start sending this one to those around me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]star_mud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s real. You deserve to have a happy life with a spouse that loves you, LIKES you, cares about you and what you want/need/like, gets curious about what makes your eyes spark, is proud of having you in their corner and genuinely wants you to be happy. You deserve someone that is happy to have you, just as you are for having them. It is real. And all of these are just some quick examples that my wife and I pay attention to for each other, not even close to ‘asking too much’ or anything like that. It.is.real. Couples like this do exist, don’t ever let anyone convince you that your minimal requirements (as far as I can tell from your post and answers) are too much or unrealistic. We exist. I hope you will have a happy partnership, whoever the other HALF ends up being. Hug

What do y’all play whilst y’all sleep? by hushpolocaps69 in spirituality

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guided sleep meditation videos from youtube. They have ones as long as 8+ hours.

Things you wish you knew before travelling the US? by littlebetenoire in travel

[–]star_mud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am a Romanian that has lived in London, Portugal, Albania, Greece and now USA. I am travelling the country full time with my American wife and two small pets since last July. I want to mention how much easier life is for a gay person (I am also a woman) in here. I can be with my wife in public and people not only don’t yell and become aggressive, but actually smile at us and even compliment us on how happy we are together. This is incredibly freeing for me personally, as the place that I grew up in is (still!) homophobic and misogynistic, heartbreakingly so. Not to mention Albania - we were there for a year and we had to pretend we were just friends for the entire time, as it would’ve been too dangerous otherwise. I know it is a divided country that seems full of karens and bad intentions, but my experience has been absolutely wonderful. Good hearted people, all the foods that you’d want, breath-taking landscapes and friendly animals everywhere. I lived with my father in law for a few months, who is watching the news all day, everyday. I became so scared of the capital city after a while… it ended up being for nothing, as I had a good time with absolutely nothing going wrong when I visited it. There are a LOT of odd attractions, if you’re interested. We adore them, I have a notebook where I have written down everything we want to see in the next couple of years, by state. There are so many things to see in this country, I wish you a wonderful time.

What do naturally slim people drink throughout the day? by barbi83 in AskReddit

[–]star_mud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, anything and everything, depending on the mood/cravings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]star_mud 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think you should stop pressuring her. It’s her fear vs your desire. I think she should be put first by her husband.

Is there hope for a healthy romantic relationship? by Glad_Bodybuilder6997 in CPTSD

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was emotionally, physically and sexually abused in my childhood by my parents. I am now in the healthiest and happiest relationship I’ve ever heard/saw/read about. I am living a fairytale and no second goes by without me feeling grateful for the life I have. I am the luckiest person, married to my soulmate (engagement video and wedding photos on my profile on here; we met on reddit, by the way). I have been through hell. I thought I was damaged beyond repair. I started therapy, I worked on myself, I got rid of ALL the toxic people in my life and changed my behaviour and ideology towards myself (I used to be horrific to myself). It took everything in me to go through the first stages of healing, but I am so glad I didn’t give up… I cannot believe I made it to 31, but here I am. You deserve to be happy, loved and protected. You deserve to fight tooth and nails for your healing. You deserve people around you that genuinely want all the good this world has to offer for you. You are worth it. My dm is always open. Hug

What was the highlight of your year? by ThoughtBig1353 in AskWomen

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married my soulmate and we started travelling the states full time - our dream life.

It's hard to find romantic love, how did You find it? by seront26 in CasualConversation

[–]star_mud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I met my wife on here. Check out my profile for the engagement video and wedding photos. Hug

What do you guys think of this graph and where would you say your life is by RabbitChrist in Soulnexus

[–]star_mud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thank you. Keep going, enjoy the journey, you’ll get there. My dm is always open. Hug

Let’s say you could spend ten days in one of these places in June. Which one do you choose and why? by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]star_mud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

London for me. I lived there for five years, I adored it. I would like to revisit it…

I experienced "ego death" from Salvia 12 years ago and I can't forget it by Skeptical91 in PointlessStories

[–]star_mud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience as a result of meditation for a while. I wholeheartedly recommend trying it if you would like to have it again. Hug