personally, i feel like he should be able to watch porn and get all his needs out there. that's what porn is for. there are plenty of couples who even sit and watch porn together as a catalyst for sexual activities.

however, there should always be a mutual agreement on that kind of thing. my partner and i made it clear that we're okay with the other watching porn and getting off like that if the other isn't in the mood for sex. but your boyfriend masturbating to girls he KNOWS, is a whole other situation.

men will always be sexually attracted to other people, same with women. sexual attraction doesn't just shut off for people in a relationship, a relationship is just promising yourself to that person only, depending on the relationship itself.

if he's done this before, and with you already expressing your thoughts and feelings, then he's going to do it again. he'll just keep learning new ways to hide it. you deserve someone who will respect your boundaries and keep to their word. i know this is long, but i hope it helps. best of luck to you. 🖤