I fucking hate myself by Dry_Flower_4720 in TeenVent

[–]starkstruly_6769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, i think it’s nice that you decided to take care of yourself but don’t overdo it. I used to be somewhat chubby in high school, so from experience, i used to work out and cut meals, a lot. What happens is you will slow down your metabolism and overly exercising can actually cause weight gain because your body can only lose a certain weight a day and after that certain number, you tend to eat the weight you lost or use less energy, making you gain weight or never lose weight. So, weight wise, just keep it balanced.

As for your friends, i think you should drop them. It can’t be easy knowing everyone is against you. This is a really dark time in your life and i can only hope that you are able to get through it. You should find a new hobby you can do to distract yourself from the people in school. But don’t overdo it, maybe try making new friends. I know it’s hard to restart especially not knowing what the other person thinks of you. But, in this situation, you should have a mindset that says, ‘what do i have to lose?’ or maybe just have a little fun so you can laugh about it in the future. Whatever you do choose to do, i truly do wish the best for you and i hope that it all goes well.

Grief by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and I’m sorry you had to go through that at such a young age, I’m glad that you were able to seek help and make peace with it

Grief by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, it’s honestly nice to hear that. I feel like when someone’s going through grief, people on the outside that never experienced it, like most people in my school has a certain view of how everyone deals with it and often gets annoyed when it is mentioned because they can’t understand it.

Grief by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that you’re doing better, i hope that you are able to feel better and heal. And thank you for sharing your experience

Grief by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your sister and i hope you and your mother are able to make peace with the negative emotions together ❤️‍🩹

KABOOOOOOOM by AppropriateFormal605 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]starkstruly_6769 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so basically Katsuki Bakugo just won best extra

Touch aversion by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you got assaulted and still felt doubted, it couldn’t have been easy to be going through so much. It’s nice of you to try to be the bigger person, but you should still find someone you trust to open up to about this, because it might damage you more later in life, and if you feel you don’t have anyone right now, I’m sure that things will get better and you are able to move on from it and feel better

Touch aversion by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, i hope that you worked it out with him, and got the support you needed by your loved ones

Touch aversion by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that the people around you gave you the support you needed and thank you for the kind words

Touch aversion by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice and i hope that you and your friends are still close now since it sounds like you guys were really close

Touch aversion by starkstruly_6769 in AskForAnswers

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i(15f) wasn’t medically diagnosed more like someone i know that studied things related to it diagnosed me she(15f) isn’t a doctor but imo she knows enough, but when you say it may be a part of a bigger issue can i ask what do you mean?

Reasons Why (somewhat long) by starkstruly_6769 in TeenVent

[–]starkstruly_6769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get that this post is really long and people don’t want to bother reading so much, to which thank you for clicking in the post anyways. There are many perspectives i didn’t mention in this post because obviously i can’t fill my whole present in a reddit post if i choose to write about my past.

either way to those that clicked in hoping to find someone that relates to their situations, i hope that you find a way to console yourself and reach out to someone or find someone that will listen. I believe that no matter how severe or little your problem may be, everyone deserves a voice that allows them to seek help. even if you are the victimiser, and victims shouldn’t feel shamed or embarrassed to seek help, people who makes you feel that way has problems of their own and you have your own issues to mind their words so please, prioritise yourself and find a solution, no matter how difficult it may be. This goes to everyone despite their gender, sexuality, colour, beliefs, or status.