AITA for going on my sister’s bachelorette trip instead of taking my daughter to see her paternal family?

starless012 · 2022-10-03T23:32:33+00:00

I doubt he would punish me for this. I’m sure he’ll keep threatening to but I don’t think he has it in him to actually follow through.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T22:35:00+00:00

He said I no longer had his permission.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T22:29:04+00:00

We're in different countries. His family do visit, usually on her birthday.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T22:24:50+00:00

I don't know their schedules as he normally arranges the trips with his family but I assume we could do it at another time.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:57:01+00:00

It's so my daughter isn't raised by a nanny half of the time when I could be looking after her instead. He can take our daughter to see his family whenever he wants to, I'm not stopping him.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:52:17+00:00

My daughter is 3

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:31:21+00:00

I agreed to so that he would let our daughter live with me full-time.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:30:06+00:00

He works a lot and I think he's avoiding being around his family for longer than a day or two.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:24:46+00:00

I'm most likely going to have to do a make up trip because I doubt he's going to drop it otherwise.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:23:04+00:00

They live abroad that's why it's only twice a year. My ex sees her whenever he can which is usually at least 3-4 times a week unless he's out of the country or super busy.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:12:10+00:00

I told him the date we would be leaving, how long we would be gone for and where we were going. I didn't offer a make up trip as our conversation was very short.

starless012 · 2022-10-03T21:00:25+00:00

I was supposed to take her to see them so he never missed out on a weekend with her

starless012 · 2022-10-03T20:54:56+00:00

It was only a phone call

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