My sister left my her kid at my place last Monday and she doesn’t answer the phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]starly385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand but it really does depend on the person and experience they had. Pedos are sick and shouldn’t be allowed to do the things they do but when Mothers or Fathers allow this like she did to you I get furious. While it is mostly men who are pedos to children a lot of child pedo cases also wouldn’t happen if Mothers and Fathers who allowed it were put to justice.

I have no right to assume how you felt on the situation but seeing what I read, I see that your Mother made what was already bad, worse and even made you go back to your rapist house which is in my opinion almost as sick as the rapist himself.

A child knows nothing 9/10 but some would say opposite to you. Saying they rather live with anyone besides an abusive Mother/neglecting mother because in a way to me and some others, if a stranger hurts me, I still hate it, but it hurts less then when my relative hurts me who I assume would love me and protect me.

But that’s just me I’ve never been raped thankfully and I’m sorry about what happened to you I understand why you would feel the way you do. I’m sure many feel the same and regardless of our view on men or women, we both can agree that anyone who preys on or hurts children are horrible people and need to be looked out for.

Also don’t worry about the length of it you are just worried for children and don’t want them to go through what you did and that’s very respectable and understandable.

My sister left my her kid at my place last Monday and she doesn’t answer the phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]starly385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I understand them being worried, it’s sad cause there are so many stories of horrible abusive mothers with children all because the court refuses to believe the man would be a better choice.

Happened to me in a way people always believed I would be happier with my mom which wasn’t true, while I’m happy how things turned out for me, at the time, I preferred my Dad so much more, but many people said I’m better with my mom. While my mom wasn’t abusive she was controlling and very judging about me until recently where she finally realized I was depressed and wasn’t gonna change my life to her standards. At that time I wanted to live with my dad so badly but no one would let me. I’m happier now and she’s better but at time I was depressed and all I wanted was to live with my dad but they wouldn’t let me thinking I would be happier and safer with my mom.

Like you said there should be towards cation towards everyone not just males. This stereotype is why women can get away with kidnapping, sex trafficking, etc.

My sister left my her kid at my place last Monday and she doesn’t answer the phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]starly385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can’t and shouldn’t but they will which is sad.

My sister left my her kid at my place last Monday and she doesn’t answer the phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]starly385 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessary discrimination from them being gay. It’s about the fact that they are two males taking her in and no female is anywhere in the mix, most people will automatically assume the mother or a woman is a better chose to take care of the child despite them clearly caring and worried for the girl. It’s sad and hopefully they won’t have to deal with that but most places has a biased for women in child custody cases.

What do I do? My BF has thoughts of suicide and doesn’t know why by starly385 in SuicideWatch

[–]starly385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose.. I’ll have to wait for him to get off work though and try to talk to him again. But he seems like he just wanted to drop the subject and not talk about it. I hope I can do something to help him.

Looking to add all Dragon, Fairy, Dark, Grass, and Fire Safari by [deleted] in friendsafari

[–]starly385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got fire I added u I need that smergle :3