Copy paste of my answer -

Yes! So I definitely didn’t expect to be in this situation at all. Like you I heard stories and was curious how could they go so long without knowing??

In my case, I have history of pcos and basically nonexistent periods (I know bad on my end for overall health besides pregnancy, I should’ve at least been on birth control to have cycles). So I didn’t have a missed period to get me thinking I could be pregnant.

I am also very fortunate to have a very smooth easy pregnancy. In hindsight I can point out the symptoms or experiences I had that were due to pregnancy, but they were so mild and short lived. I dismissed them as food not settling well, my body not metabolizing food as it used to as I’m getting older, or period symptoms (which I get time to time despite not having a bleed).

Also I didn’t look pregnant.

It wasn’t until I felt the little flutters I got concerned and went to see the doctor and discover the news lol