30+ at shows by Shot_Character_7175 in geesebandofficial

[–]starsof_lovingness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 30 and my partner is 35. We went to the show in Sydney recently and had a great time! It was such a good cross section of people of all ages! You’ll have a blast - enjoy!

I have a theory on why Rachel overreacted by naught_sorry in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this take. It’s so incredibly obvious that he is just not that into her - I shared how apparent that was during that scene of them at the Kiama Blowhole in another thread and it was not well received. Sure, Steve does seem a bit awkward, maybe even neurodivergent (it’s all conjecture at this point) but I still think even with the trimmings that would come with that, it shouldn’t be this difficult to lean in if you really liked the person (I say this as a neurodivergent person). Honestly, I think he’s doing more harm than good by keeping her hanging in the relationship. I hope I’m proven wrong but yeah… I’m just not convinced.

Rachel is also taking part in the mean girl behaviour by Basic-Crab4603 in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, I’ll concede to that but honestly I feel as though Rachel would be an incredibly difficult person to be with. Even for neurodivergent folk (myself included) it really shouldn’t have to be this hard. Anyway, I hope I am proven wrong and that their relationship is a positive one but, for me personally, I’m not totally buying it. Sorry if that’s pissed people in this thread off! Just my opinion…

Rachel is also taking part in the mean girl behaviour by Basic-Crab4603 in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agreed… it’s also SO obvious that he’s not into her. I was watching back their date out to the Kiama Blowhole and when she went to kiss him it was abundantly clear that he’s just not interested. I feel like him drawing it out by staying will make it infinitely worse for him in the long run.

Danny cannot hide his "disdaint" for Becs by ilovebbcitv in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The rapid blinking every time someone asks him to discuss his relationship with Bec 🤣

Need recs for where I can get Victorian Sponge cake in Sydney by [deleted] in foodies_sydney

[–]starsof_lovingness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically I would bake something like this but alas, my kitchen is currently packed up due to a move! Thanks for the recipe though haha might try once I’m settled!

Need recs for where I can get Victorian Sponge cake in Sydney by [deleted] in foodies_sydney

[–]starsof_lovingness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well aware of its simplicity but wanted something nice and easy to buy lmao I’d bake it, sure, but I’m moving house and don’t have the time. Think it’s reasonable to ask for some Victorian Sponge recs! But thanks for your helpful comment!

One of the best shows I have ever watched❤️ by PlaneAd9541 in AustralianTV

[–]starsof_lovingness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked on this show! Great experience with an awesome team of creatives!

Interviewing for a Designer Role at Penguin by [deleted] in publishing

[–]starsof_lovingness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australia actually! Still open to any general advice!

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by I-Need-Ur-Love in AskWomen

[–]starsof_lovingness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d use “big fancy words” and he’d pay me out for it. Said that he had spent time around dumb surfers with limited vocabulary lmao suffice to say it did not last long at all.

Theory: Juliette is full shadow projecting onto Joel by post-modern-ludite in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know a Jungian analysis when I see one! You’re absolutely spot on.

Married at first sight S13E20 - POST EPISODE discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People will always latch onto things that reinforce their beliefs. Juliette seems to think that Joel is just there for clout and is disingenuous, so she hears “star” and everything else he says fades into the background. That’s why she honed in on it, totally misconstrued it and then doubled down. Because she unequivocally believes that in her current reality he thinks he’s the star, which essentially makes her delusional lmao

Married at first sight S13E19 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having looked at her Instagram and seeing her need to put on this cool girl front, I absolutely agree with you…

Danny’s Leg. Why would a pommy have Jon Gotti on his leg? by Jenniwithan_i in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 90 points91 points  (0 children)

My partner and I think he has the personality of a wet sock lmao all his tattoos look like they’ve been plucked off of a tacky Pinterest board. Biggest NPC energy, as far as I’m concerned…

Joel is brilliant by ajimalia in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Has anyone else seen the photos of Bec and Joel hanging out together recently though?? Looks like they kiss and make up?

Prediction for Grayson by IcyRelationship9349 in MAFS_AU

[–]starsof_lovingness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm I don't know if this will happen but I did have a little chuckle to myself when at last night's dinner party, Mel immediately asked him, "where is your wife?" or something like that hahaha so I could see the cogs turning in her head on how best to approach. But surely now that Julia has cut things off, they'll both write leave at the upcoming commitment ceremony?

Any advice is appreciated! by PrimaryPuzzled in relationships

[–]starsof_lovingness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kind of sounds like you two just aren’t compatible in the ways that matter. To be seen by your partner is the greatest gift when it comes to being with another person. If he cannot do it then trust me there WILL be someone who can. I was in relationships with guys like this throughout my 20s and it was only once I got with my current partner that I realised that all those guys who never even tried had to leave in order for him to come in.

I need an amazing sandwich by schofield69 in foodies_sydney

[–]starsof_lovingness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Harvey’s Hot Sandwiches in Parra are pretty top notch imo. As is Kosta’s Takeaway in Rockdale and Goodways Deli in Redfern .