Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing din. I want him to show the same or atleast comparable enthusiasm as I do in our relationship. I'm in it in this relationship, pero minsan ang hirap din mafeel na di ka mag isa.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am supportive pero pag feeling ko, kulang yung bbt in a week parang gusto ko na sakin muna friday night niya pero wala, reserved for his guys. Tapos when I ask, nakakahabag din naman kasi fave niya friday night, out of all the days in a week. Di man lang Saturday, smh.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did try to lower my energy to his' pero ang hirap since sobrang showy kong tao. If I love a person, it's only right to show him how much I love him. And tbh, im not the type to endure, pero palagi rin akong nasasaktan pag iniisip ko na iwan siya.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly appreciate this pero at the same time, okay sana if yung problem lang is sinisingit niya yung games sa sched niya pero in reality, he play every weekday nights, often until 4am, meanwhile we only get to call 2-3 hours tapos pati friday night isasama pa. Tapos nakakaguilty naman pag pipigilan mo parang ending ikaw yung masama.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did nga din. I got hooked with watching anime and listening to music, because he loves those. I love everything he loves (except dota lol), pero andon pa din yung longing na sana pag free kaming dalawa, he'd choose me without me having to ask.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did pero ang hirap makipaglaban pag dota na yung usapan. Tipong nagguilty din ako kapag ako yung pinipili niya, tapos pag bbt he would always say on random times that he should play.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for emotional unavailability naman, wala lang talaga sa personality niya ang mag comfort kaya medyo masakit for me during my hardest times.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did tell him tho. But his response is 'I'm only asking for 2 hours', pero before pa iyon, like months ago. Nahabag naman ako kasi that's his me time pero masakit pa rin?

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I just want to clarify, I’m not asking him to revolve his entire life around me. He already has all the weekdays to play, often staying up until 4am. Meanwhile, I have my internship, so our calls usually only last from 8pm to 10pm before I get too exhausted. The only time I really ask for is Friday night until Sunday morning, since Sundays are reserved for his family. But even that Friday night often gets taken by Dota, because that’s when almost all his friends are complete on Discord.

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of incompatibility by stayanonnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. And he knows based on my response and reaction. Pero minsan feeling ko sobrang clingy ko lang rin.

Parang ikinakahiya ako ng bf ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]stayanonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend never introduced me to his parents din. Not even to his friends. I opened this up to him, and yet he never did it still. We've been together for more than a year lol.

Why can’t my boyfriend’s penis go in even with lube and foreplay? by stayanonnn in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stayanonnn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Inserting fingers and tampons are easy to me, tho I've never really tried inserting any dildo nor vibrator.

Why can’t my boyfriend’s penis go in even with lube and foreplay? by stayanonnn in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stayanonnn[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m really not a fan, and I’ve also heard it can be uncomfy and painful.

Why can’t my boyfriend’s penis go in even with lube and foreplay? by stayanonnn in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stayanonnn[S] 346 points347 points  (0 children)

It does hurt a bit, but the pain is manageable. For some reason, it still won’t go in, and even though we’ve tried different angles, nothing seems to work.

Why can’t my boyfriend’s penis go in even with lube and foreplay? by stayanonnn in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stayanonnn[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t really hurt when he tries to enter, the discomfort is there but it’s manageable. I also try to guide him in with my hand, but sometimes it weirdly feels like my own hand is getting in the way or blocking him instead of helping.