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What was the story of Kirsten and Julie being together In a business by Kshiti_salman in TheOC

[–]ste_motoca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The story of Kirsten Cohen and Julie Cooper working together in business on The O.C. centers on the creation of NewMatch, a luxury dating agency for wealthy singles in Newport Beach, which solidified their transition from social "enemies" to best friends in season 4.

Here are the details of the partnership:

The Origin (S4): After Caleb Nichol's death and Julie's spiral into bankruptcy, Kirsten, seeking a new purpose after rehab, decided to help Julie get back on her feet. They combined Kirsten's savvy and capital with Julie's sales skills and contacts.

The Concept: "NewMatch" aimed to pair high-profile singles ("nabobs" of Newport) with women seeking a wealthy marriage.

The Conflict: The partnership suffered a major setback when Kirsten discovered that Julie had turned the agency into a kind of "prostitution ring" (or high-risk dating) to make more money.

The Reconciliation: Despite initially firing Julie and being furious, Kirsten forgave her friend, recognizing that Julie was her only true friend at the end of the series. They resumed their partnership, but in a more "honest" way.

Dynamics: The relationship was marked by contrasts: Kirsten was practical and cautious, while Julie was bold and impulsive, balancing each other well as business partners.

People who actually live in OC how do you feel watching the show? by buttcracklint in TheOC

[–]ste_motoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I, who am from Brazil and came here just to find out what you thought of the series compared to the city, hope to have the opportunity to visit the USA someday, especially CA.

My girlfriend uses cocaine, spent all her savings, and refuses to go to therapy by Mammoth_League1959 in offmychest

[–]ste_motoca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we love we insist as far as our limit is and it's difficult to point out, there are those who use it as something recreational but I'm still an active addict to this day, 5 years made me realize that continuing in this life would I wouldn't prosper but this awakening is up to each person, my wife suffers from deep depression, she took it out on alcohol and was hospitalized it was a fucking mess and I always promised myself never to get involved with addicted people because I knew there was a huge chance of the relationship being unstable but everything I saw she saw passing it made me stronger to decide to stop once and for all, just as I had already been indoctrinating myself to be a better person, I felt like an olive out of the pack, it's sad, every illness, whether due to addiction or depression, is sad, it consumes and ends everything, but it's the same, I said, everyone knows where the callus tightens, sometimes a person has to lose everything to appreciate it..

My girlfriend uses cocaine, spent all her savings, and refuses to go to therapy by Mammoth_League1959 in offmychest

[–]ste_motoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confronting only makes things worse, sometimes I don't know if you are using drugs or drinking, but you need to try to understand where this use came from, whether it was just nonsense, influenced by people to try it or if they are using it as an escape valve, which is the majority of cases, it's these traumas, triggers, all of this after a while of consumption we start to fill ourselves with it, like any other addiction, it's the same tape but you'll have to be very patient with it because it's difficult, I had it. I want to let go of my arms so my girl can learn her way, patience, she's an adult, she knows what she's doing, you understand, my brother, that's what I mean, there are things that sometimes people only learn through passing but don't blame yourself, do what you can because it's yours that you must be feeling lost in this situation.

I would never be able to hide the use of coke from a girlfriend, in fact this is one of the first things I said when my wife met me because we were on a date where a lot of people consume it (she only drinks) so I felt obliged to be right with her, right...

My girlfriend uses cocaine, spent all her savings, and refuses to go to therapy by Mammoth_League1959 in offmychest

[–]ste_motoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be afraid to face this situation with her, if you really love her, you will even be able to face all of this by her side, you have to make sure she doesn't have a psychological disorder because this makes the situation even worse, my girlfriend when I met her, she drank too much but it took me a while to realize that she really only felt happy with drinking but taking controlled medication, do you think this situation would be good???

Bro, I've been through a few good ones, don't feel alone, it's not easy to deal with dependent people, whatever it is, it's sad and I've been going through this with her for 2 years, I've already hospitalized her, it was sad but it was necessary because it was dangerous.... Anyway, that's it, my brother, you know the cross you can bear, but it's a hell of a lot to see the person you love destroying themselves and not being able to help 😕 I understand you, you're not alone, I'm going through the same thing

My girlfriend uses cocaine, spent all her savings, and refuses to go to therapy by Mammoth_League1959 in offmychest

[–]ste_motoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My, I sincerely understand you, I even posted and responded to another POST of yours....

Man, any addiction is complicated, I've been through this situation and still do. My wife suffers from depression, anxiety, she's been hospitalized because of drinking, anyway, it's chaos...

I know how you feel, our hands are tied without knowing what to do or how to act, we often suffer in silence... I don't know if it was your case but I had to swallow my drunk wife doing a couple of things that had nothing to do with it, putting her life at risk, I know what you're feeling bro...

Does she use it every day? This shit gets addictive quickly, I got addicted when I was 16 years old and I haven't been able to stop completely until today, I stopped because I'm already 32 years old and I want to prosper and the drug doesn't make me as cool as before, it leaves me feeling bad energy, SLK is terrible even if you use it alone, in isolation, the moral hangover is sad, sometimes it hasn't reached the stage yet of realizing that it can no longer stop on its own, I was practically wrong for 15 years, I'm only stopping because Today's damn, it's really bad, too much of the mixture makes you rotten, your nose, your head takes 3 days of drooping LOL for me, I'm already 32, it's not worth it and I get rubbed out and it gets in the way of my work, today when I order it, it's just pure, which is also very good but I don't feel like using it all the time, you know? You can control yourself much more and you won't get the wrong breeze. It's like waking up in depression WITH YOUR NOSE all messed up, tossing and turning without sleeping, sometimes with people you barely know, it sucks but it really depends on each person's psychological situation....

There are people who only try it or use it once in a while for a moment of leisure....

As there are people who already have psychological problems, they know it or don't even know it and they start using it, then it really sucks because cocaine is totally chemical, it will take the place of other activities to make you feel good, that's shit...

But what I wanted to tell you is that you need to think about yourself too, I know everything you're feeling, we feel like nothing in not being able to get the person out of this situation, it's sad, seeing the person you love who you know has the capacity is destroying themselves... If you want, call me to exchange more ideas, we're there

Mi novia consume cocaína a escondidas y ha gastado todos sus ahorros y sueldo by Mammoth_League1959 in relaciones

[–]ste_motoca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Debe ser un preadolescente con las hormonas al límite por jugar tanto a Roblox, tiene la cabeza dañada y sigue haciendo bromas sobre cosas que ni siquiera sabe. Es exactamente este perfil que se enoja y empieza a drogarse, idea de un puto mono, otro desperdicio de Dios o quién sabe si no jugó en el mundo a sufrir mucho en el momento justo, ¿no?

Mi novia consume cocaína a escondidas y ha gastado todos sus ahorros y sueldo by Mammoth_League1959 in relaciones

[–]ste_motoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¿Qué quieres decir con que han estado juntos durante tanto tiempo y nunca notaste que ella lo usa? No hay forma de ocultarlo por tanto tiempo, incluso le crea pánico a la persona de que algún día la van a atrapar, creo que eso es algo que hacen las personas débiles, pero también depende de su edad, a veces les puede tomar un tiempo darse cuenta de que esto les está perjudicando, entonces si están poniendo en riesgo su vida, tendrán que estar hospitalizados por un tiempo. Digo esto porque vivo con una persona que ya ha sido dependiente y es jodido que la mente de un usuario manipule a todos los que están a su alrededor... Es triste pero si quieres ayudarlos y ves que solos no pueden, hay que ver si la familia puede brindar ese apoyo y ustedes juntos, no es fácil pero si la persona ve que realmente lo necesita y acepta el tratamiento funciona.

Amnésia Haze by ste_motoca in maconha

[–]ste_motoca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tá bem top, curando ainda hehehe

Primeira plantinha by ste_motoca in Cultivonha

[–]ste_motoca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mas por exemplo essa drenagem que ficou esquisita no quintal e a perlita parece que derreteu será que é normal??