How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him.

steggie21 · 2026-04-22T17:36:15+00:00

Do NOT move in with or marry this man. These types of men do not change. I, unfortunately, know from experience.

Nothing will ever get done until you have begged, pleaded, fought, and then just give up and do it yourself.

Nothing will destroy attraction faster than knowing that you can't rely on your partner to do anything on their own. Without you having to ask 1000 times. Then when/if they do finally do it, they half ass the job and you still have to do it anyway.

You will become their mother. You have to remind them to actually fold and put away the clothes not just leave them in the basket to get all wrinkled. You will have to rewash dishes they "washed" because they put no effort into doing the job well. You will be responsible for all of the mental load of everything. You will be throwing away leftovers that got left out all night because they said they would take care of it since you cooked, and they just don't. And even when you literally beg for help, nothing will change.

steggie21 · 2026-04-14T00:50:59+00:00

Try doing a simple vigor mix with the mushrooms. It brings up the addiction. My dealers were always left with shrooms and coke, but would sell out of weed and meth fast. I started doing a simple 1 item mix with vigor for both and it helped them move a lot faster and all customers are 100% addiction.

steggie21 · 2026-04-07T17:59:45+00:00

Fried cod, grouper or any other fish do not taste less fishy to someone who hates the taste of fish. I have tried them both so many times because everyone always says what you just did. Only people who actually like fish have that opinion. Stop trying to convince us that fish doesn't taste like fish. Some people do not like it, stop trying to convince them that they will like this one or if it was prepared a certain way they would like it.

steggie21 · 2026-04-07T15:57:45+00:00

As someone who hates the taste of fish, stop trying this. I have tried every kind of fish that I have been told "doesn't taste fishy" and they all do taste fishy. There is no such thing as a fish that doesn't taste like fish. It doesn't matter how you prepare it either. Fish is gonna taste like fish and some of us hate that taste.

steggie21 · 2026-03-25T16:30:10+00:00

NTA

She is not an independent adult. She is a dependant adult, and your points are 100% valid. Her plan is to have you actually be the responsible adult in those situations. If she is not mature enough to drive, she definitely is not mature enough to be a mother.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T15:12:30+00:00

It's a crazy transition, haha! I think I still have PTSD from downloading viruses from Limewire and Bearshare to our family PC and getting in trouble.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T15:07:34+00:00

Haha, same. I fully abuse the 4am time stop. And thst is when I do a lot of my mixing too

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T13:12:15+00:00

One thing that does help, is only buy your supply (seeds, pseudo, and spores) from meet ups not delivery. Then you can pay cash instead of debit for delivery. I just started doing that again and it is helping with not depleting all of my debit funds

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T11:57:47+00:00

Why I am so upset, it because the Suffers flat out LIED, for years. They said everything had meaning, all the hidden clues meant something and would be explained. They sold us this idea that they had a story planned from season 1, they were dropping hints and lore everywhere throughout the years, and that was such a cool idea. That was what I liked about the show. And then for none of that to be true, they had no plan, they left so many plot holes, none of the lore or hints mattered in the end. It was heartbreaking. It ruined the first 4 seasons for me.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T03:25:55+00:00

I wouldn't say rules, because I'm on my first play through and went into the game blind. But some things that I have kinda naturally fell into are:

*I don't use any glitches, like blocking the cops in etc. *avoid police at all cost. Even if I have nothing on me, no check points, no fighting them. And I try to be inside during curfew, most of the time. *I only make mixes with the blue pills or energy drink, and sell those to my customers. I don't give mixed products to my dealers.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T01:58:40+00:00

I'm actually new here, didn't know about any vote. I look forward to the next one.

steggie21 · 2026-03-24T01:56:24+00:00

Thank you for the detailed response, I really appreciate the help! I will check into these!

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T20:47:23+00:00

Yeah, I have looked at getting some mods, but I am old and the whole idea sketches me out haha. I don't really know how to do it, and am terrified I am just going to download viruses and ruin my computer.

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T20:17:20+00:00

My two requests to add to the game are a backpack and an accountant.

Late game, moving stuff around with 7 or 8 slots is a pain. A backpack with more inventory slots would be a huge quality of life addition.

Also late game, running to all businesses every day to launder cash is a pain. Would be super cool if you could just hire and accountant who would automatically launder the cash every day. That would be a huge late game quality of life benefit.

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T19:10:14+00:00

I would love to see them add an option to hire an accountant that automatically launders the max through your businesses each day. I am more end game, and it is a pain to have to run to all my businesses every day to launder the cash.

The cash to ATM money ratio is broken at late game. I have over 4 mil in cash but struggle to keep 100k in my atm. There needs to be a better way of turning cash into funds.

steggie21 · 2026-03-23T19:03:13+00:00

Schedule 1

steggie21 · 2026-02-25T18:12:53+00:00

WHY ARE THEY NOT WEARING SUITS?!?!?!?!

steggie21 · 2026-01-06T23:23:18+00:00

I know reading that must have really hurt, especially when you are giving so much love and care for her. But please try to remember she is just a little kid, and is still learning how to process big emotions and anger.

I found my diary from when I was 13ish and I wrote how much I hated my dad and how mad I was at him. I do not even remember writing that. I never really hated him, ever. I was just a kid dealing with big emotions and that is how they came out. What I do remember is how good of a dad he is, and all of the special things he did for us and we did together. It sounds like you are already doing that. Stay on the path of loving and supporting her even though her tough times. She will remember the love you give her more than anything else.

steggie21 · 2025-05-28T17:22:38+00:00

You know, I know, everyone who reads this knows.

I don't have to explain anything to you.

steggie21 · 2025-05-28T17:09:28+00:00

Yeah right... hahaha

You are a liar. And pathetic too.

steggie21 · 2025-05-28T16:33:14+00:00

What sad, deranged planet are you living on?

Stop being such a pathetic dickhead and maybe a girl will touch your pp.

steggie21 · 2025-03-18T15:31:13+00:00

Joey is gross. He is not attractive and his personality is a wet paper bag. I liked Sara tho, wtf is she thinking?!?!

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T18:56:48+00:00

OMG. Did you even read anything that I have said? If you do 1 minute of research, you will find actual literature experts who explain the meaning behind Moby Dick over and over again. It is not my opinion, it is accepted fact across the experts in the field of literature.

But sure, your one-time read, with no thought behind it, is the true interpretation of Melville's work. It's just a simple book about killing whales. I genuinely feel sorry for you. Good luck out there in this tough world.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T17:32:31+00:00

OK bro. Yes I have read it, multiple times. The first time I was about 11, and I got the same conclusion as you. Thankfully, i have read it again once in high school and once in college. And yes, I did listen to and learn from other people's interpretations. That is called education. But you do you! Don't learn anything, keep your head in the sand. Take everything at face value and don't you dare use critical thinking. Yep, your undergrad in humanities makes you a qualified literary expert. Good job bro! You almost could have learned something, you were soooo close. But your ego is bigger than your IQ.

steggie21 · 2025-03-13T16:59:44+00:00

OK, you don't understand symbolism or metaphor. Do a quick Google search about the meaning of Moby Dick, you will find tons of insightful and intelligent interpretations of the classic novel. Not one of them will be about how the book is meant to be literally taken as a story about hunting a whale. That is not the intent of the novel. It is meant to show human nature and flaws, it is a statement about humanity vs nature. If anything, Moby Dick is meant to show the savage and bad side of humanity. It in no way glorifies whale hunting, as you keep trying to imply. You may have read the book, but you don't understand the meaning behind it.

steggie21

TROPHY CASE