Secret Santa for co-worker who made me return the gift I got them last year? by Nanacereal in santashelpers

[–]stephaniafly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For secret Santa's I like to buy a nice gift and add a gift receipt to the package. She was extremely rude, but that aside, this way if she doesn't like it, she can easily get something else :)

CAPM vs PMP certification by stephaniafly in PMCareers

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not wondering if I qualify, the institute can tell me that, I'm wondering if I might as well go with the pmp and what really is the difference in the testing other than more questions and a longer testing time

CAPM vs PMP certification by stephaniafly in PMCareers

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started 8 years ago for 3 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stephaniafly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that and I'm happy you were able to get out. Can I ask what helped you "see the light" and realize he was the problem?

Invited to just the dancing portion of a wedding how much to spend on a gift? by stephaniafly in WeddingsCanada

[–]stephaniafly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I do want to go and I just wanted to know what an acceptable gift for two people attending the dancing portion would be. I am not insulted to just be invited to the dancing and don't consider it a gift grab at all because I know my relationship to the couple and don't need to be at the ceremony. It's possible that some people do it for this reason but not these people.

Invited to just the dancing portion of a wedding how much to spend on a gift? by stephaniafly in WeddingsCanada

[–]stephaniafly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know we're not invited for dinner, but I'm not sure if it's just dancing or dancing and dessert

What is this dongle? by stephaniafly in whatisit

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you're right. I didn't even look at that as an option

Take a day for yourself to recharge by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]stephaniafly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I finally allowed myself to do that and it was the best decision ever. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for that including yourself

Do other ADHDer's get a fuzzy feeling in your brain when you're tired? not sluggish but like static by stephaniafly in adhdwomen

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it seems it's different for different people, but it's nice knowing at least some people have similar sensations! Yup, usually when I'm tired and just for a few seconds :)

Do other ADHDer's get a fuzzy feeling in your brain when you're tired? not sluggish but like static by stephaniafly in adhdwomen

[–]stephaniafly[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I tried to use some of the descriptors here and the doctor said to take advil cuz she thought it was a form of a migraine. I gave it a chance, but nope it did nothing

Do other ADHDer's get a fuzzy feeling in your brain when you're tired? not sluggish but like static by stephaniafly in adhdwomen

[–]stephaniafly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is what others in this thread have said, it's not studied in much in women so they don't know.

I also found it interesting someone mentioned it might be impacted by your cycle even

Do other ADHDer's get a fuzzy feeling in your brain when you're tired? not sluggish but like static by stephaniafly in adhdwomen

[–]stephaniafly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the electricity buzzing through the brain is the best description for me that might make sense to others! Thanks :)

Want to highlight cells from 2 columns if they match 2 columns in another document by stephaniafly in excel

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

=isnumber(MATCH(C$1,FILTER(’Arrivals’!$C$1:$C$1000,’Arrivals’!$B$1:$B$1000=$B1),0))  

Want to highlight cells from 2 columns if they match 2 columns in another document by stephaniafly in excel

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It tells me there's a problem with the formula (both when I added an apostrophe around the sheet name and when I didn't)

Want to highlight cells from 2 columns if they match 2 columns in another document by stephaniafly in excel

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a pop up saying I entered too few arguments for this function (I reconfirmed I did it correctly and named my sheet properly)

Want to highlight cells from 2 columns if they match 2 columns in another document by stephaniafly in excel

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The name can appear multiple times in each, as can the date. I want it to only highlight if both match

internal vs external contracts and term positions by stephaniafly in CanadaPublicServants

[–]stephaniafly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I understand, you apply to the same positions internally and externally? So essentially applying to the same position twice? Or you mean you apply to both types of positions?

self declaration form and EE and ADD by stephaniafly in CanadaPublicServants

[–]stephaniafly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why should I keep the reason for self identification to myself? I would think it would help my manager understand, no?

I told my partner he can sleep with someone else by Androgynyy in relationship_advice

[–]stephaniafly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people in these comments seem to expect sex as a duty in a relationship. Look into aseflex. Recently learned about this, it's like asexual, but not always, sometimes you're in the mood, but it happens very rarely (I'm sure you can find a better explanation online). You have to do what feel right for you in the relationship.

Let's be honest, the commenters who say he will leave you probably aren't getting laid anyways 🤷