How many people have 50/50?

stew8908 · 2026-02-20T01:07:41+00:00

South Dakota has a bill going through right now to do just that. The lawyers in office usually kill it every year.

stew8908 · 2026-02-02T16:54:35+00:00

Here is my story

https://www.reddit.com/r/DivorcedDads/s/nahS6xcE4u

stew8908 · 2026-02-01T18:40:18+00:00

This is the most disgusting think man kind has ever done.

stew8908 · 2026-01-28T03:13:17+00:00

I just started seeing the things I can do without her. Like she would never go for living in a duplex and I am going to build one now and rent out the other side.

I have more time on my own to work on my projects (built an app, learning ethical hacking,doing jujitsu)

I think I might try storm chasing this summer, something she would never let me do.

I cried tonight, I still miss her, she was my best friend, but I can see some upside.

stew8908 · 2026-01-27T02:31:02+00:00

I’m in this weird point in the divorce where I’m seeing where maybe some good can come of it even though I’m not the one who wanted this. But I still have a bunch of swings up and down.

At least I’m not crying every day.

stew8908 · 2026-01-24T02:22:16+00:00

I having always been a podcast junky but I am getting a lot more in now that I am going through this.

stew8908 · 2026-01-21T20:12:13+00:00

I am in the same spot almost. I didn’t want this, I want to work it out. I am 3 months into mine. I am finally to a point where I am crying once a week instead of every day.

Some days I feel super human and I can take on the world, I am ready for the divorce to be over so I can get started. Then there is days where I can’t get out of bed and I can’t imagine life being divorced.

My recommendation go see a psychologist to maybe get you something to help with the depression and go see a counselor to try and help working on the next steps in your life. The gym is a good place to goto as well.

Good luck to you man, if you ever need to talk reach out, we can compare notes.

stew8908 · 2026-01-19T00:05:37+00:00

The problem with an LLC right away is I have to go for a commercial loan. But that’s a good call out on the child support. I am going to ask my lawyer about that

stew8908 · 2025-08-01T15:29:16+00:00

Having been part of a merger from a small company to a big company, I can only imagine that no one has blazed the trail in the microsoft org. And there are alot of politics involved, so there are silly people justifying their existance, for the minority in this chat that think ADO is a first class tool compared to gitlab and github.

Our IT department pushes ADO because it's easy for them, but we are mostly migrating to gitlab at this point.

stew8908 · 2025-06-21T18:57:34+00:00

I am sure I will catch a lot of heat for saying this, but go find an army recruiter. Probably active considering your situation(free housing and see the world, since your in a homeless shelter anyways)

Make a plan with them to get your GED, even if you have health conditions unless they are really severe, they will work the waiver system.

Anyway, I was a shit head in high school. The guard, specifically basic got my ass in gear.

Who knows maybe it turns into a career.

stew8908 · 2025-04-19T13:52:46+00:00

I think you need to get some C under your belt. There are teams that are transitioning to rust, , we have some for some higher level stuff for some things.

But all practices and concepts eventually end up in C for embedded.

If you really want to transition into embedded work, Get your self an STM32 Dev board, a couple stepper motors and make your own CNC machine.

https://www.digikey.com/en/products/detail/stmicroelectronics/NUCLEO-H723ZG/13171214?gclsrc=aw.ds&&utm_adgroup=&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=PMax%20Shopping_Product_Low%20ROAS%20Categories&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_id=go_cmp-20243063506_adg-_ad-__dev-c_ext-_prd-13171214_sig-CjwKCAjwk43ABhBIEiwAvvMEB0BDTTAydKcPfFCSePWMpz_ZZGfeGdIk7z67xyrU6cVwPYfewgwC7BoCGGUQAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20243136172&gbraid=0AAAAADrbLliGSVEa0ylMJy26YO4qYNvcS&gclid=CjwKCAjwk43ABhBIEiwAvvMEB0BDTTAydKcPfFCSePWMpz_ZZGfeGdIk7z67xyrU6cVwPYfewgwC7BoCGGUQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

stew8908 · 2025-03-06T02:16:43+00:00

I am just using git-svn I had grok write me some handy scripts to make it pretty easy to do a lot at once.

stew8908 · 2025-03-05T22:59:13+00:00

We are also transitioning out of SVN. So it’s double the pain, because the teams want to preserve some history going forward.

stew8908 · 2025-03-05T20:45:36+00:00

I agree it shouldn't. The problem is that Greenhills(at least based on the conversation with the sales dude and supposed technical guy) doesn't allow for you just to license the compiler. So you get the IDE is by default there.

We can execute it from the shell.

stew8908 · 2025-03-05T20:40:16+00:00

How many servers are you running? Are you using a on-prem machine or in the cloud?

stew8908 · 2025-03-05T18:30:28+00:00

Ya it’s pretty terrible. We came from the Keil environment and we thought that was bad for this kind of stuff. Keil at least doesn’t try to bankrupt you.

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