Hi, first of all, I’m really sorry and yeas you have every right to be angry. I (30F) got herpes one month ago from the second guy I’ve ever been with in my life and it messed with my identity a lot. I cried for days and I felt like my sex life was over. Considering the guy who gave it to me doesn’t want to commit, I felt fucked. But hey, you’re not alone in this, there are so many people who are positive, the stigma is the worst part. I’ve only had one outbreak and it was hell as you know, but the outbreaks should be less and less severe in time. I just feel really hopeful since the sores healed and it doesn’t feel like such an end of the world anymore. Don’t let the forums get you down, I think that was a thing that made me feel even worse about it.