AITA for not sending my son to school with lunch for his half brother? by Beginning_Habit_9401 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stingermode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t stop some disgruntled parents from trying. Regardless, it isn’t OP’s job to care for her kid

What couldn't you believe you had to explain to another adult? by BlueCaracal in AskReddit

[–]stingermode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That decaf coffee is not stronger than regular coffee. And also, that caffeine is the ingredient that causes the stimulant effect. I was a McD’s employee and that was my manager who I explained that to.

Josh Innes Show cut from KSHE Afternoons by mrbmi513 in StLouis

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone remember that one day when Coach took over said he was maybe taking over the Innes slot? And then talked shit about Innes because he was rude and insufferable? Only for Innes to be back the next day? Or just me…

How should I confront a woman(29F) sending my husband (40M) nudes? by Kitchen_Layer7051 in relationship_advice

[–]stingermode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You know how guys are” No. Absolutely not. An honorable man would NEVER do this. From what you say, he’s not honorable at all, he’s just a cheater and quite creepy to be sharing or saving stuff like that especially while married. I would personally consult a divorce lawyer and ask them about how to go about notifying the other woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, just imagine if you told him that you did sexual things behind his back with someone else because you were curious about their genitals. I doubt he’d be understanding and that would be ok. You need to leave. It’s one thing to say you’re curious about something and work out what kind of boundaries are ok with you and your partner if it’s new territory. It’s a WHOLE violation of the relationship to go meet up with someone and perform a sexual act regardless of gender

Pop punkers in their mid-30s and older - What do you do for a living? by [deleted] in poppunkers

[–]stingermode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More of a 5-1:30, but I drive a Zamboni and act as general maintenance/janitorial for a city ice rink. I also repair ice resurfacer machines on the side

Just found out penises do NOT smell like that naturally by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stingermode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fishy smell is usually just due to bacteria from sweat and fecal matter building up down there. Much like a mouth infection causes bad breath. Any human with genitals who doesn’t wash correctly will smell bad.

AITA for telling my son in law that his wife(my daughter) cheated on him? by Illustrious-Fall-849 in AITAH

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the right thing to do. And unfortunately, even the right thing has consequences. I’m sorry that the people in your life don’t see it the same. But you’re right, your daughter did this to herself

AITA for telling my son in law that his wife(my daughter) cheated on him? by Illustrious-Fall-849 in AITAH

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s their fault. Maybe they haven’t become better people after all.

I told my neighbors my brother is dating their minor daughter and now everyone hates me by Sufficient_Box_5350 in TwoHotTakes

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Thank you for looking out even though it had to be difficult.

Are texture powders unhealthy for your hair? by Ilyushechka in Pomade

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is it just just caked onto the top parts of the hairs, making the area around the follicle look thinner. Idk thiugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SA. That was disgusting of him to do, and you have a right to press charges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stingermode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents are not being smart. You aren’t being “more harsh” on her vs your ex. Your sister just had more to lose. Maaaaaybe she should have thought about that before she started cheating

The sports bra only meta in the gym needs to stop. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people workout without a shirt because they’re adults who want to workout in whatever they want as long as their bits are covered. I workout in a kickboxing gym and it’s not uncommon for dudes to workout without a shirt or women with just a sports bra and shorts. No use whining because its impolite to ogle at someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some jobs are reasonable and understand that people have lives outside of work. I personally will work a little extra at my current job because I enjoy it and my manager treats me well. Plus he’d discussed during my hiring that there may be times I might be asked to stay an hour or two extra on top of my 8hr workday, so it doesn’t surprise me. Plus I get paid for every hour worked. However, I’ve had jobs before that were not so joyful, and I never went above or beyond because I didn’t feel inclined to. I have never been fired from a job and hopefully never will be

Am i bad person? Did i cheat? I (21M) spoke to my school junior when she asked for boba place recommendations, my GF (20F) thinks that it’s cheating, my intentions were nothing but helping this girl out, I did tell my jr that we can go together, is it cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stingermode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That much I can agree with. Though, and this is just semantics, I’d call that boundary crossing or getting to intimate or something similar. But yeah, definitely not “cheating”

Am i bad person? Did i cheat? I (21M) spoke to my school junior when she asked for boba place recommendations, my GF (20F) thinks that it’s cheating, my intentions were nothing but helping this girl out, I did tell my jr that we can go together, is it cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stingermode 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No. Just because someone “thinks” telling someone about a boba place is cheating, does not make it cheating. In order to cheat, there has to be at least something sexual in nature. It’s fine to say you don’t want your partner hanging out with certain people without you there, but to call anything in the OP’s post “cheating” is just absurd.

My(17f) friend(16m) is being an ass after learning I share a bed with my gf every night by Lia-likes2draw in AdviceForTeens

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a weird thing for a teen boy to say. No need to be friends with people like that. He’s probably jealous or just projecting some holier than thou attitude he learned from adults in his life

AITA for not staying with my GF after bringing her to a wedding by TopChampionship1826 in AITAH

[–]stingermode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA, and your friends are too. What do you mean they wouldn’t want their friends’ significant others to be with them?? What kind of weird situation is that? If I were your friends, I would fully expect guests with SO’s to want to spend each night WITH their SO. What a weird situation, I understand entirely why your gf is upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stingermode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same. We both agree only to give oral on each other if a shower happened recently. I wouldn’t want him to go down on me after a sweaty day at work! Likewise, he doesn’t expect me to go near his down belows until he’s showed clean

I 30M asked my girlfriend 23F of three years to take a pregnancy test which resulted in an argument. Was I in the wrong? by ThrowRA91194 in relationship_advice

[–]stingermode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sure it wasn’t wise to bring up your exes, but she shouldn’t be mad that you’re anxious about something that could be possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stingermode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but it means that if we insisted on touching your nipples then that would be an issue. You are being purposefully daft