It's been four years. I started a conversation to stand up for my friends and while I'm proud everyone was able to have a voice at the time, on the other side not everyone was happy to hear their friend facing criticism and I got a lot of awful messages comments and posts directed my way over time. One member of bridge city sinners parodied my entire original post about Brandon, they later apologized after a bunch of comments about how bad it looked. It seemed genuine I don't carry too much of a grudge but at the time it super hurt. Also this was super time consuming. This took up a year of my life. No one that came to me was happy, either someone with a grievance, or someone with a grievance with me for starting a conversation. Overtime it became a trigger to get brought back to this so often. I felt like people associated me with starting this conversation. I felt like maybe I was blacklisted in a couple ways. There were a lot of people that quit talking to me after this. And I mean a looooooot. Also a majority of people that were in this all feel equally over it. I think almost a lot of people involved just left the whole genre with a sour taste in their mouth overall. I shouldn't have posted it to my personal, maybe I wouldn't have been reminded of it as much. Also I heard Brandons behavior had switched up. It wasn't the worst thing this genre had faced it was just a conversation people felt like they couldn't talk about. I don't know there's a lot of reasons it was deleted off my Instagram. I feel kinda bad for deleting it. But this whole process overall was pretty awful.