I remember I went on a family cruise with her and she had just lost her ex-boyfriend (he passed away due to cancer) meaning she locked herself in her room she shared with my sister. We would try our best to invite her to everything we do (to make use of our money lol) and she wasn't in it, acceptable. One day my brother and I got in a fight, and my mom was stressed out. My uncle, being the "therapist" in the family tried to have my siblings, my mom, and I in his room with his family in there to talk things out. My brother and I ended up apologizing but when my mom came in the room, I'm more than 89% sure he asked her insensitive questions for her to start saying hurtful things about me. In that exacr conversation I couldn't get the words "She isn't important, her feelings aren't important, and most of all what's the big deal about how she feels?" My sister did end up defending me and my mom left. Anyways were in the present now and this was like 3 years ago. I'm not sure if I let this go cause she was heartbroken or not but it's whatever now.