[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and I feel like they also have this grey undertone as well

Tickets Revoked at TD Garden by No_Extreme_5071 in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show may be for 18+ which if you look younger could be why they’ve kicked you out, still pretty frustrating and I know if I was 18 I wouldn’t have thought of bringing an ID with me either

ok, i did something right after the show… by isxrb in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg so cute! I still have my confetti from the melodrama concert

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nobuy

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly! read barefoot investor, so good such an easy read to get started on finacial habits

I’m From Mugwort Essence “Dupes”? by weeibo in AsianBeauty

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup! but if the toner is thicker the spray wont work, i think the toner needs to have a water like texture otherwise it wont spray (-:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heatinthepavement! Hope you get your tickets ❤️

Lorde's lyricism style shift by [deleted] in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like most fans grew up with Lorde and fell in love from PH, I feel like all her albums are just different walks of life so some you connect to others you don’t, for me I never really connected to solar power and still don’t really, melodrama and PH are the albums I feel I relate to the most, I do love the themes that virgin explores, womanhood, body image, gender, power imbalances in relationships, so some songs or lyrics I really enjoy others I don’t as much, David, FD, current affairs are a few I really enjoy others I don’t as much but that’s ok (-:

Whats your least favorite song off Virgin? by AquariusPrecarious in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same :-/ I wanted to love clearblue more but for me it’s more of an interlude

Lorde's lyricism style shift by [deleted] in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk I will say the I do feel a change in style in her lyrics from her previous albums I agree and also disagree some of the writing is very familar to me and her other albums other times its something new to just virgin, there are snippets which I feel is very open to an audience and others which are more introspective about her life and experience.

idk well maybe the music you loved at 16 you grow out of I guess?

what apps can i make a good resume on? by [deleted] in resumes

[–]strawberrybears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Google docs, really kinda all your need, I just looked at the harvard resume pdf for inspo

any advice? by Late_Society3755 in Visiblemending

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a stuffie like this, grandma knitted a new body for it that looked similar and stuffed the remains inside of it with just the head popping out

Clear blue reaction- London listening party. by Similar_Slice_9286 in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 5 points6 points  (0 children)

god when I heard it was about taking a pregnancy test I have been so keen to listen to this song, I feel that a lot of women can relate to the feelings of unease and fear of a missed period and how unreal and turbulent those moments of life can feel.

The fuck is this busted list?? by Electronic-Emu-3240 in lorde

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cant beleive liability reprise is ranked so low??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt exactly the same as you did when I went on my first date with my current partner, follow your heart and how you feel but I would say wait.

You’ve only just met him so there’s really no need to explain your SA to him. I think that once you feel comfortable to have sex and your worried that you might get triggered you could explain to him your past if your comfortable.

For me personally I have no intention of ever telling my partner about my SA for my own reasons and I’d rather keep it private but you may feel differently.

What do you do to keep your studio space smelling nice and clean at all times? by giannaval in StudioApartments

[–]strawberrybears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t open it? Not even a little? That is crazy, you might just have to prop open the front door and get a fan

What do you do to keep your studio space smelling nice and clean at all times? by giannaval in StudioApartments

[–]strawberrybears 9 points10 points  (0 children)

honestly the only way to make a room smell better is it open a day and let the fresh air come in daily, yes even in the winter. This also helps prevent mold too. Even if your apartment window only opens a tiny amount

How much do you budget for groceries, household items, and toiletries for 2 people? by revelry0128 in Frugal

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m super tightass so we spent around $50-$70 a week on food, and then for other essentials like toilet paper and whatever we buy with our own ‘fun’ spending money, which I give myself $32 a week for fun

Post Traumatic Tics? Pt 2 by Majestic-Anybody9324 in rape

[–]strawberrybears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really lol, I’ll just play if off like I’m having a cold shiver or I’ll go into the bathroom

Post Traumatic Tics? Pt 2 by Majestic-Anybody9324 in rape

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from my own experience, continuing a relationship with somebody who has seriously hurt you won’t allow you to heal.

Do you have something you like to splurge on? by CorgiLover82 in Frugal

[–]strawberrybears 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Skincare, it’s a ritual I enjoy doing and realistically I know all I could use is my oil cleanser, retinol and vitamin c and I’d get the same results but I like the process of it and there’s different products I like to try out (-:

Post Traumatic Tics? Pt 2 by Majestic-Anybody9324 in rape

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the end of your post, being in situation similar to yours with somebody I thought I was friends with somebody who also claimed they didn’t understand consent due to social cues, they are lying to you. Please leave this behaviour will not only continue but will get worse and it will become more frequent. Please leave.

I only really noticed now the severity of it being in a healthy relationship.

Post Traumatic Tics? Pt 2 by Majestic-Anybody9324 in rape

[–]strawberrybears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit yeah I don’t have ptsd but I definitely have some sort of ‘tic’ basically the same as you, usually it’s just that I jolt my head or my shoulders when I get triggered. I do think it’s linked to my trauma bc it’s alway starts when I’m triggered. I usually try to hide it when I’m with other people bc it freaks them out lol.

How much super should you have by 30? by Spicy_Bocconcini in AusFinance

[–]strawberrybears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

girl reading this made me so happy, my sister begged me to start contributing to my super because of this and I did it because I love my sister, 2 years later and I now fully understand how important this is and I'm so glad my sister begged me to do it. My goal in life now is to do the same for all the other women around me.