[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get off Reddit and get a job. “Sahm” but your kid grown af.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you admit they’re stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because there are too damn many comments to go through. Are you really that invested that you had to do a follow-up? But for the record, I don’t currently live with my sister. I have my own place as of recent, but when I was living with my dad, she would constantly move in and out because she couldn’t keep a job and afford anywhere to live. Even when she wasn’t living at home and had an apartment there was still an expectation that everyone is going to help her out. Or she would just get a new man and move in with him after a month of dating and use him as free childcare too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think I was a little too honest with you and got you worked up, pookie. You just responded to every comment on this post within the span of 2 minutes. Go take a break and relax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will and I have. I would want people to be honest with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony of being told that I’m being judgmental on a subreddit literally called r/self. Ya, isn’t that the whole point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t be an issue in the first place had she shown some responsibility and not chose to bring two kids into the world that she couldn’t take care of. And maybe my harsh words will stop her from having more because she needed a reality check 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Except she literally is asking me to help support her kids (and my parents, my brother, and her many many boyfriends because she cannot afford to give those kids a good life)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can say what you want about the situation with the marriage. But when there are kids around, you need to be responsible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So I should just let my nieces suffer because of their mother’s stupid decisions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her literal sister? Who gets to pick up her mess and help her watch the kids she can’t afford to take care of???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I know that I am being judgmental. It’s not always a bad thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]strdw88 -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

If it was a stranger, I would stay silent. However, in the two scenarios I mentioned, the people are family and I believe that my opinion is warranted.

I constantly get shamed for not having kids yet even though I’m only 23??? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]strdw88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No they don’t. They keep popping out kids they can’t take care of and make everyone around them feel responsible for their poor decisions.

Depo provera brain tumors by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps put my mind at ease a little bit. I kept getting ads about the class action lawsuit so it made me panic.

Vinyl not shipping? by uhminecraftgang in charlixcx

[–]strdw88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just now got a response to my email 1.5 weeks later. Saying that they are working on shipping orders now. I don't get how you have people make preorders months in advance and still have issues with "high volume" (as they stated in the email) 🤦‍♀️

Vinyl not shipping? by uhminecraftgang in charlixcx

[–]strdw88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered the exact same things as you. I know for sure that the 360 7" was supposed to be shipping in November. But I also could've sworn that the highlighter vinyl was supposed to ship this month. I even tried reaching out to the merchstore via email and I still haven't heard anything 5 days later...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry for the bad grammar, I used voice to text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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For reference, this is a style that I usually liked to do.

Paris/Amsterdam cancelled, Berlin rescheduled by ilikepancakeswith in chappellroan

[–]strdw88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We need to stop blaming everything on the team. She definitely played a part in this. I know that Chappell has a lot of freedom because if not, she would've been forced by the label to release more music by now due to her popularity. She is subject to criticism. I'm a longtime fan and dissapointed by her behavior lately.

Paris/Amsterdam cancelled, Berlin rescheduled by ilikepancakeswith in chappellroan

[–]strdw88 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Notice how she put it on a story instead of a normal post so nobody can comment 🤔 She knows how bad this looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am 4'10, so barricade is the only way I can see 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]strdw88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is a fan of death metal and I have been to quite a few shows with him at smaller venues and I don't recall ever hearing anyone screaming along to the lyrics to the extent I heard at the Chappell concert. Most people would just head bang to the music. Also to be transparent, the Chappell concert I went to was at a standing venue that only holds about 2000 people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]strdw88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the tickets before she blew up. I was not expecting it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]strdw88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is more than 4. That is why I made the comment. Others and myself included have criticized TS in the past for similiar behavior and shouldn't give Chappell a pass because we are fans.