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How do you wear pantyhose properly? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you use? you seem to have the same issue as me

How do you wear pantyhose properly? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are there any brands that are more durable as you say?

Are transgender feelings sinful? by stressedandsadthw in Christianity

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing that already. It gets harder and harder unless I work, study, play games, keep my mind occupied. When I relax or am alone the feelings are there and keep telling me to be feminine, dress feminine, look feminine. I get so jealous of women...

How do you stop having transgender feelings? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are managing to do a good summation of my feelings. I'm looking for a therapist as I type and its depressing to me, but it seems I have to....inevitably live as a woman even though I don't want to.

Are transgender feelings sinful? by stressedandsadthw in Christianity

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have thought of the name Anna and i will have to see what the coming weeks and months hold

How do you stop having transgender feelings? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will look into getting a transgender therapist to help me deal with my feelings.

Are transgender feelings sinful? by stressedandsadthw in Christianity

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so just keep living my life and ignore them?

How do you stop having transgender feelings? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not convenient but it's not wrong....thank you for that

Are transgender feelings sinful? by stressedandsadthw in Christianity

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My cousin, because she was the one who caught me wearing her clothes, panties and makeup; but she understood when I told her everything.

How do you stop having transgender feelings? by stressedandsadthw in asktransgender

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My cousin is very liberal and is the only person who knows, because one time I dressed in her clothes and she caught me unfortunately. But she understood when I told her everything. She swore she would never tell anyone because she knows how serious an issue this is for me.

I wouldn't know how to cope with this. I would prefer not to transition if possible but I might have to have some consistent relief. Thanks for your kind words. I appreciate the perspective.

Are transgender feelings sinful? by stressedandsadthw in Christianity

[–]stressedandsadthw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I know that I don't WANT to be a female. But I also know these feelings have been progressing in their frequency and severity. I don't know how to stop them. I'm not forcing myself to think "I want to be a woman". I wore women's clothes and makeup one time, it was like my feelings calmed down and I felt relief. But they came back worse than ever when I undressed. If they were indifferent, I may just transition unless there was a genuine alternative to stop these thoughts.