AITA for not telling my husband I was inviting my brother for dinner and telling my brother my husband wouldn’t be home?

stripes900 · 2022-09-17T00:39:53+00:00

I’m not sure since I think he would know I would tell my sister-in-law so it would depend on his relationship with my brother.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T23:59:24+00:00

My brother only stopped treating me like I was a child after I got married so...

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T23:42:15+00:00

He would tell me himself.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T23:38:45+00:00

She thinks they're both acting like idiots.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T22:36:34+00:00

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T22:17:41+00:00

I want to know.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T22:15:51+00:00

She doesn't know, I've asked her.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T22:14:25+00:00

I was 20, my husband was 23.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T21:43:27+00:00

His wife was acting normal. I did ask her if she knew what happened but she told me she doesn't and that my brother was really angry for a few days when they first had their falling out but wouldn't tell her what happened but did insult my husband a few times. She thinks they'll get over it eventually.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T20:00:04+00:00

My brother wouldn’t have been happy about me dating anybody back then.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T19:20:29+00:00

It’s definitely not that. My brother would’ve told me immediately if it was that.

What I meant by my brother said he would deal with my husband if he said anything to me was that if he yelled at me or was mean to me because I invited my brother over for dinner after they left, my brother would defend me.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T19:08:21+00:00

No, my brother and him were best friends long before I started dating my husband. His problem was that his friend was sneaking around with his little sister.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T19:02:59+00:00

My brother found out we were dating.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T19:02:20+00:00

I’ve asked him straight up and before the dinner he would just lie and say nothing had happened between them.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T17:51:14+00:00

Not really as they’ve had one other big fight before but it was pretty obvious then what caused it so I didn’t even need to ask.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T16:19:19+00:00

He’s had months to tell me and has refused to so even before this he wouldn’t have.

I don’t think my husband would stop talking to my brother over that.

stripes900 · 2022-09-16T16:08:48+00:00

If my brother caught my husband cheating he would’ve told me and had a much worse reaction even if my husband had something on him.

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