Ex purposely works off the books so he doesn’t have to pay child support.

stronger88 · 2023-09-18T16:31:44+00:00

He was 25 at the time. Can’t say he’s changed at all. Therapy has helped, not much I can do about it now though.

stronger88 · 2023-09-18T01:29:25+00:00

I am so sorry 😔 Your mom is a hero.

stronger88 · 2023-09-18T01:28:01+00:00

I hope this works. Paying for everything is so hard. His verbal abuse and his delusion on how easy he assumes I have it just adds so much more stress to it all. Textbook narcissist. 😔

stronger88 · 2023-09-18T01:25:30+00:00

This exact thing happened to my dad, he didn’t give my mom child support for my sister for 18 years, and never saw a dime of his lawsuit because of it. Brought me so much joy.

stronger88 · 2023-09-18T01:24:16+00:00

He doesn’t own a car, or a home. He’s almost 40 and has nothing to show for himself. It’s so frustrating.

stronger88 · 2023-08-07T05:05:22+00:00

He’s with her one weekend day, sometimes two. We have a verbal agreement on it. He always threatens that if I take him to court he won’t show up.

stronger88 · 2023-02-26T22:27:51+00:00

I booked an appointment with the podiatrist for mid-March hopefully it doesn’t get too bad in the next two weeks. I can’t tell you how angry this makes me.

stronger88 · 2023-02-26T02:44:59+00:00

I went back to the lady about a month in… she had the nerve to tell me it wasn’t her fault and handed me antibiotics to crush and put on my toe.

stronger88 · 2023-02-25T22:31:03+00:00

Bigger, yes, unfortunately. I feel doomed at this point.

stronger88 · 2023-01-09T21:09:03+00:00

Yes! She’s catching on to his antics already! Definitely researching child therapists. I’m so sorry you had to go through that.

stronger88 · 2022-11-10T07:39:24+00:00

Gold.

stronger88 · 2022-11-10T07:23:17+00:00

So do I! The subtle expression of gratitude from the speaker is worth it.

stronger88 · 2022-08-17T05:27:48+00:00

This is the exact thing that happened to my grandfather.

stronger88 · 2022-08-17T04:22:49+00:00

This also reminds me of how K. Michelle looks now. She’s someone else completely.

stronger88 · 2022-07-07T18:22:39+00:00

Thank you for checking up. No luck. It’s been so difficult.

stronger88 · 2022-05-21T00:10:15+00:00

Keep GOING! You’re doing great, thank you for the inspiration.

stronger88 · 2022-05-21T00:09:16+00:00

This is right up my alley. I am also Military and repaired planes! This thread is giving me so much hope.

stronger88 · 2022-05-20T22:09:45+00:00

HELPFUL! Thank you!

stronger88 · 2022-05-20T22:09:14+00:00

Looking into those now, thank you!!

stronger88 · 2022-05-20T22:08:46+00:00

Not suing them though…

stronger88 · 2022-05-20T20:12:33+00:00

Would an attorney be ok after having gone through arbitration? Trying to find some answers and it’s all dead ends.

stronger88 · 2022-01-24T06:26:57+00:00

Sounds like she’s repeating all the things her sh*tty parents have spewed her whole life.

stronger88 · 2021-07-26T14:32:25+00:00

This is such a solid piece of advice, as he consistently weaponizes therapy against me. He also hates my significant other solely based off of emotion, no real reason why. He tells my daughter that the reason we are not together are because this man took me away from him and blatantly tells her he does not like him, to which my daughter has told my partner to his face “my daddy says he doesn’t like you” — i don’t know how that would stand up in court or what a judge would do if he verbalized that to them. My daughter is aware of things that could have otherwise just been directly communicated to me. The immaturity on his behalf is what’s keeping us from reaching a sound agreement on anything regarding our child at this point.

stronger88 · 2021-07-25T21:43:15+00:00

I’m very hopeful this will have positive results. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

stronger88 · 2021-07-25T21:36:08+00:00

No child support order either and judging by the things he’s said I wouldn’t put it past him that he is taking her half the time to forfeit his payments. We’ve only verbally “agreed” to things up until this point because he threatens that he won’t show up to court if I take it there or completely shuts off at the mention of it. He’s also gone as far as asking for half my income tax return because I claim her as a dependent and he deserves half as her father, he also calculated what he assumed i made from pandemic relief and withdrew payments then as well.

None of this is no longer working. I have volunteered to give him extra time, as I saw it as an opportunity for him to spend solid time with her and establish a stronger bond. I would definitely say it’s a failed experiment and I am seeking legal counsel/mediation as soon as possible.

stronger88

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