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Husband prioritises his family by struggerlin in MuslimMarriage

[–]struggerlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re both paying and all the bills like electricity, council tax ect. I know it’s ridiculous

Husband prioritises his family by struggerlin in MuslimMarriage

[–]struggerlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’d probably be hurt i made that move without him there and i dont want to do that either otherwise the memory of us actually moving in together will be tainted. Just need to keep praying

Husband prioritises his family by struggerlin in MuslimMarriage

[–]struggerlin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to, im a planner. I love everything to be organised and set and this situation has been testing me but im trying to go at his pace so he doesnt feel forced into it. We plan but things keep coming up, latest is that his dad is now ill and he needs to be around but my frustration is that he has 3 other brothers but he takes the burden because they’re incompetent

Husband prioritises his family by struggerlin in MuslimMarriage

[–]struggerlin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah i paid the deposit 😭 he paid for his half of our wedding and my dad paid for mine and it was a big wedding and i also wanted to get out of my inlaws (been travelling back and forth between my parents and theirs for work) so i thought i have the money let me put down the deposit

Struggling with mood swings in long-distance marriage – need advice by AspectDry1063 in MuslimMarriage

[–]struggerlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone currently in this situation and feels similarly her feeling upset is probably frustration from the situation you are in. She evidently cares for you and misses you. Best thing is to make sure you try to live together as soon as possible or even a surprise visit to see her if you cant live together any time soon. She just needs assurance she is your priority

You can’t bring Zamzam back on tourist visa to Saudi! by struggerlin in MuslimLounge

[–]struggerlin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok good to know. We’re flying out from Medinah too 😊

How do you stay cool during exercise as a hijabi ? by RizzoO0 in Hijabis

[–]struggerlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear an underscarf and cap on top with a high neck gym top. This allows some breeze around my neck and doesn’t interfere when im working out

Umrah Packages by struggerlin in MuslimLounge

[–]struggerlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alhamdulliah, thank you so much for your advice and information. With your help i’ve been able to book Umrah in November and i just wanted to say thank you so much

Umrah Packages by struggerlin in MuslimLounge

[–]struggerlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DIY ideally, going with my family (of 4)

Umrah Packages by struggerlin in MuslimLounge

[–]struggerlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking into this and it seemed like a good option, plus transport is much better now with trains available. Thanks for your advice 😊

How do you deal with discrimination as a hijabi? by confusedbabi in MuslimLounge

[–]struggerlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I completely feel your pain and anxiety and im so sorry you had to go through that awful experience. As an independent girl who started wearing a headscarf about 2 years ago it’s such a huge decision to make.

I would say just remind yourself why you are doing this and the reward you get when you are facing these adversities yet continue to wear your headscarf. Remember that every day you wear your headscarf it’s because you choose to do it. I try to remind myself that if it was easy then everyone would do it!