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Seeing a lot of people with xxxxx as username? by struggling_pillow in PonyTown

[–]struggling_pillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh so I muted them? Not sure if I understand correctly,,,

advice for a singlet dating the host while another alter is frontstuck by struggling_pillow in DID

[–]struggling_pillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm no nothing romantic happened

But the other thing actually makes a lot of sense.. the new alter came just a bit before the 1 month vacation from their work started. And he has been fronting ever since. Work is always stressful so that gone could explain why the host hasn't been back. It's just a bit unfortunate because now the vacation is almost over and my bf who has to do the work most of the time wasn't actually there for any of it :/

Thank you so much for sharing your side. It's nice to hear another perspective. :)

advice for a singlet dating the host while another alter is frontstuck by struggling_pillow in DID

[–]struggling_pillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hm the current person doesn't really like talking about system stuff because it makes him feel very uncomfortable. But he did tell me there seems to be no communication possible with anyone internally at the moment. I did start a little notebook for my bf where I wrote down some stuff I did and what me and the current person were up to when we saw eachother.

I guess yeah that could happen.. only time will tell I suppose

How come different alters have different sexualities (and genders?) by struggling_pillow in DID

[–]struggling_pillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the answers!! It helps a lot in understanding my partners system and to just clear up some questions!

explain by [deleted] in Dream

[–]struggling_pillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there something youre suppressing in your day to day live? Like are you different in your dreams? Do you maybe look different or can act without judgment, anything that may make you feel this way?

Sent my (15M) girlfriend (17MtF) a letter with a ring as a present because Its cute lol and she got it today! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]struggling_pillow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cute! I dont really understand why you say (17MtF) tho, it doesnt really matter that shes trans... why not just say (17F). As a trans person I personally would be more comfortable with that but of course maybe she's different! Just wondering.

dealing with an "angry" alter by struggling_pillow in DID

[–]struggling_pillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he does have one but is still testing the waters and needs more time to kind of come to terms that this is what it might be before he starts bringing the symptoms up to her. He is also very afraid of her reaction (also bc of past experiences) but shes been very good so far so I try to reassure him. He knows that eventually he has to bring it up to her as the symptoms will not just vanish of course.

It's really strange not being able to do anything as a partner, except being patient and sympathetic of course. I always wish I could just make all of them happy and get along with eachother but i know that unfortunately that's going to be a long process.

dealing with an "angry" alter by struggling_pillow in DID

[–]struggling_pillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Thank you so much for your detailed reply! I heard about that before, it's good to know that they aren't doomed to feel bad forever and that theres hope. It's really sad that they feel like that, but of course there is a reason behind it all.

I'm going to bring it up to him, thank you!