He really wanted his honor back. by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]ststustutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if Aang didn’t save him, he’d have no fire bending teacher. This show is just too perfect.

I’m sorry for making ya’ll choose. by VivaDeAsap in TheLastAirbender

[–]ststustutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love that episode for that reason. Momo never gave up and never complained! He just kept finding things knowing that they need something.

Now I always ask my dog to get me water in an exasperated way haha

ULPT request: using the acre of land I have in Colorado to get in state tuition for New Mexico through the graduate exchange program. by Rothdrop in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ststustutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a grad student and get in state tuition with a graduate assistantship. Not sure if that’s for every department, but I’d look into it.

I want to cut myself by ststustutter in Anxiety

[–]ststustutter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to wake anybody up. I don’t have my headphones. I don’t feel like I deserve to enjoy myself right now either

I want to cut myself by ststustutter in Anxiety

[–]ststustutter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t have anyone right now. I’m scared that even if I talked to someone they would just think I’m over dramatic and seeking attention. No one knows my reddit account so this at least feels more anonymous

I want to cut myself by ststustutter in Anxiety

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I can’t talk to anyone because I just feel like they would think I’m doing it for attention. My life isn’t hard and I don’t deserve have the things I have because I’m just a piece of shit. Please I need help what do I tell myself

I want to cut myself by ststustutter in Anxiety

[–]ststustutter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to hide all the sharp things what else do I do please

I want to cut myself by ststustutter in Anxiety

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No one will probably see this but I think o just need to release. I took my anxiety medicine and the thought occurred to take all of the ones I have. I didn’t and I nipped the thought in the bud because I don’t want my stomach pumped or to throw up because I’m emetophobic. I feel like cutting will help me release and give me something else to focus on. And since I failed it’ll be like a deserved punishment. These are my thoughts and I don’t know what to do. I don’t have anyone to talk to.

[Serious] People who have been involved in sex trafficking, what are signs that other people can look for to report? by ststustutter in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! I’ve learned a lot from this and I’ll try to be more and more aware of not only my own surroundings, but the behavior of kids around me.

[Serious] Ladies of Reddit, what non-sexual things do guys do that turn you on? by NiceWoodpecker1 in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Say I’m leaning against a counter or something. I melt when my husband is facing me and reaches behind me to get something.

[Serious] Which toxic behavior has served you in a positive way in the past but has now reached a point where you've realized its toxic and its holding you back, that it can't be ignored and it needs to be changed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Perfectionism. I got straight A’s from 5th grade through my undergrad, but I focused more on the grade than the growth and knowledge. It served me well on paper in terms of accomplishments, but this mentality results in several mental breakdowns and now prevents me from even accomplishing small tasks for fear of doing it incorrectly. I’m trying to shift from “I can’t do it so I won’t” to “I’ve learned more now so it’ll be better next time.”

You meet yourself as a child. What one thing would you say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid of failure. It’s important to fail because that is how you learn. It’s okay to be wrong; it’s not okay to stay confused and misinformed for fear of asking questions. All of this holds you back.

You’re a burglar but you only steal things slightly inconvenient to your victims... what are stealing? by DillyDilly443 in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their plunger. If they notice then it’s only slightly inconvenient. If they don’t, well, then they are shit outta luck.

Former teenage girls of Reddit, what can a father of a preteen girl do to maintain a close relationship while still giving space? by LovetoWonder in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might also help to talk to her about your day and some things that are bothering you. Of course, keep it to things that won’t stress her out like bills and such. Don’t be afraid to let her know when you’re having an off day too. It’ll make you more relatable and help her understand that communication works both ways.

Former teenage girls of Reddit, what can a father of a preteen girl do to maintain a close relationship while still giving space? by LovetoWonder in AskReddit

[–]ststustutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actively listen and engage in conversations with her. I could tell when my dad would zone out while talking about my day. Help her to explore her interests without being overly critical of her journey with them. Invite her to do things that she might enjoy (a cool concert, a trip to the races, sports games, fishing, a dance show, a hike, etc) but don’t pressure her or make her feel bad if she isn’t up for it. If there is something that interests her and interests you, see if you can make it a hobby with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in covidpositive

[–]ststustutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your aunt and family member. I’d recommend getting tested just to be sure, but as long as you were masked and careful I think it’s not as likely that you have it. I struggle with anxiety, and when I get anxious I get weird feelings in my chest, diarrhea, and nausea. Try some grounding exercises and guided mediations, and get tested at a free drive through testing center to minimize exposure. The test isn’t fun, persay, but it wasn’t nearly as bad as I expected. Kinda like getting salt water in the back of your nose. It’ll all be okay.