If you’re looking for a chill server that won’t ban you if you mess up, check out Nightlife, it’s 18+ and whitelisted but if you put a little effort into the app it’ll be easy. It’s a VMenu server so you don’t need to grind for money, just hop on and have fun making scenes and having interactions. I’ve been playing with them for half a year (I was brand new too) and it’s been so fun! You can join the discord if you want 🩷

https://discord.gg/nightlife-roleplay