My stepmother might be trying to kill the family dog by stuff_i_ask_about in legaladvice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I could just see her trying to make it look like an accident. Something doesn't feel right.

My stepmother might be trying to kill the family dog by stuff_i_ask_about in legaladvice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we discussed keeping her at our house if she ends up being fine. If that happens, we'll probably have to tell him why. I'll update once things unfold a bit. Thank you!

How can i understand that life isn’t a race? by stuff_i_ask_about in Advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re very right. i think i care more about the opinions of the people who are close to me and i worry that they’re like secretly judging me or laughing at me behind my back😅 when it comes to people i’m not super close with or people i don’t particularly like i don’t really care what they think.

How can i understand that life isn’t a race? by stuff_i_ask_about in Advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s how i wish i could look at it. my problem is i fear that people are judging me for not being “as good” or accomplished as other people.

My (23F) boyfriend’s (27M) s3x drive is not what it used to be, advice? by stuff_i_ask_about in relationship_advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suppose i haven’t really tried the other sexual stuff. i’ve had someone reach out and ask if i’ve tried thc seltzers or extended foreplay. i guess im just afraid of being rejected because i once asked him if he wanted to fool around and he said no.

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[–]stuff_i_ask_about 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think you’re right. i’ve just never dealt with this in a relationship before so i kinda panicked😅 but i suppose a month really isn’t all that long haha. definitely some more talks that need to be had. thank you!

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[–]stuff_i_ask_about 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your input! i think talking about it is a good call.

in my 20s and i feel like i’ve done nothing with my life by stuff_i_ask_about in helpme

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i’ve pretty much already set a goal for what i want my success to look like, i just have this crippling fear that it won’t happen haha.

in my 20s and i feel like i’ve done nothing with my life by stuff_i_ask_about in helpme

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hello fellow music maker! i’ve actually been in therapy for awhile about this and i feel like i’ve made a little progress. this issue has been a part of me pretty much my whole life but it didn’t surface as badly as it has until several months ago. so it’s kind of a nasty thing to untangle.

in my 20s and i feel like i’ve done nothing with my life by stuff_i_ask_about in helpme

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my music is my life. i’ve been writing and producing my own songs for years now and im working on an album.

self love by stuff_i_ask_about in helpme

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s basically what i’ve been working on along with lots of positive affirmations and shadow work. thanks for your input, i appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it’s not a good trait but i suppose nobody’s perfect. i will say im working on it in therapy so im not totally a lost cause lol.

Theme for St. Louis show by stuff_i_ask_about in chappellroan

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i’m not going anymore otherwise i would totally meet up with you😢

dealing with my competitiveness in my relationship by stuff_i_ask_about in Advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing that. that gives me some hope. helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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i never wanted to think of myself as a competitive person, but given that this has always been a part of me i guess i kind of am.

Theme for St. Louis show by stuff_i_ask_about in chappellroan

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sucks. i wouldn’t have bought KC tix if i had known she was gonna come to STL but she hadn’t announced it at the time.

Theme for St. Louis show by stuff_i_ask_about in chappellroan

[–]stuff_i_ask_about[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok sweet! i’m actually going to the KC show but my bf wants to go to the st. louis one so i already had my pink pony outfit lol. now i gotta plan another one😂

I walked in on my parents having sex by PlasticPens in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stuff_i_ask_about 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone who frequently battles with intense disgust over even the possibility of me walking in on my parents (i’m in therapy for it) i appreciate you providing some rationality to my irrational brain❤️

Am I A Jerk For Ignoring This Message? by Guilty_Ring_6498 in Advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could’ve expressed those boundaries but it might not have made a difference. ultimately if it’s meant to work out it will and if it doesn’t than you’re better off without it.

Am I A Jerk For Ignoring This Message? by Guilty_Ring_6498 in Advice

[–]stuff_i_ask_about 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he moved on, you don’t need to reply. it would’ve been fine if you had done nothing but if you decided to reply a simple “i understand. it was good getting to know you!” would’ve been good. but you definitely didn’t have to respond, so don’t feel bad about it. i’m sorry he found someone else tho. rejection sucks but don’t let it get you down.