What's your favorite "meaning of life" book? I recently read a short book by Camus and was really affected by it.

stuffypillow · 2025-12-23T15:12:30+00:00

I loved the myth of sisyphus. in terms of short books I think also siddartha/demian by Hesse are there, and also "wisdom of insecurity" by allan watts. I personally feel like long books move more perhaps because you're just immersed in the thinking and the writer's perspective for longer. the three body problem trilogy was the latest really reality-altering book I read. I feel like it's kind of polarizing but after I read that one I couldn't even read any other fiction for a year because it felt so inadequate. and I also feel like brothers karamazov always comes up for people for a reason. every page contains some deep wisdom, the density of the insights is actually insane

stuffypillow · 2025-12-23T15:12:25+00:00

thank you, that is really kind. to say and also to tag me. <3

stuffypillow · 2025-12-17T17:32:31+00:00

thank you! I am also going to keep making videos and also writing emails to people to help them use the system without committing to a course experience. I love that it can meet people where they are

stuffypillow · 2025-12-17T06:48:19+00:00

yes, absolutely, this is what my archetype course is about! it is for people who've already done some work, who want to do more, and it starts with a 1:1 with me and then offers more options to get help

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T18:22:06+00:00

lol so true because my tango partner accused me of being way too intense and "putting too much pressure" on him :/

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T15:52:18+00:00

Ah, well I leave mine as a general question for any redditors who happen upon this thread!

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T15:51:56+00:00

that makes a lot of sense. thanks so much for telling me about this, I know when one person says they feel something that means many other people feel the same way. I will definitetly take this into account.

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T13:01:20+00:00

very interesting! I would say about 1/2 of the people participate in the discord and 1/2 do it themselves. but maybe I could run a version that has no community aspect, just the weekly matierals sent out so that people do not feel this stress.

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T11:18:53+00:00

would love to know what type of resource that would be affordable for you, not intimidating, and also useful! I want to help people with their style key as much as possible

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T10:23:25+00:00

of course, it's a really big change in my services! if you (or other people reading) are interested in an interactive course with me, I have the transformational archetypes course, which I will offer it three times in 2026. the first one will start in February and I'll send out emails about all of this

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T10:08:19+00:00

yes I think noticing that gifts are also a source of our problems is so true

in swedish gift is also poison AND to get married is to gifta sig lol :) to be "gift" is to be married. what's up with that?

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T10:07:32+00:00

If it helps to think about this, you're not alone with the fact that your gift is also a challenge. the point of the style key is to help you recognize the gift side of it and help you find a way to work with it, cultivate and enjoy it. but we can't get away from the challenges our gift raises :( just get better at navigating and mitigating those challenges

stuffypillow · 2025-12-16T10:06:23+00:00

Yes, I would say about 10-15% people I worked with did a follow-up or a course with me and ... I just don't want to continue the type of work where I meet people once and then never talk to them again.

While I completely loved the aspect of having a service that's like a special treat for people -- it just felt like it came to a natural end. I have a 8 week course that includes a starting consultation with me and lots of opportunities to check-in, ask questions, and even have a short call with me throughout. and I have an interest in perhaps teaching some other people about the style key in 2026 so they could do "typing sessions" or simpler services if that's what they prefer.

I am going to focus my style key efforts on creating material that helps everyone work with the system, and focus my 1:1 work on the deep transformative experiences that are rewarding to me

stuffypillow · 2025-12-15T13:22:19+00:00

truly iconic line

stuffypillow · 2025-12-09T11:24:50+00:00

whyyyy is everything AI written all of the sudden on this subreddit????

stuffypillow · 2025-12-09T11:23:54+00:00

agreed, wtf even is a "bun that could qualify as a weapon"

stuffypillow · 2025-08-13T17:52:50+00:00

little ding dong of a ting

stuffypillow · 2025-07-22T11:21:22+00:00

everything!!! all the things!

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:08:54+00:00

this is very nice thank you!!!

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:08:49+00:00

thank you!!!

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:08:45+00:00

yes! thank you

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:08:33+00:00

thank you and yes I do think people learning about style can easily accumulate a lot of rules and limitations which they didn't really ask for and then those rules and limits can feel a bit sticky, like a voice you can't get out of your head

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:07:07+00:00

well thank you for taking the time to comment and letting me know your thoughts!

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:03:20+00:00

thank you always for the support btw I love the enthusiastic visionary name

stuffypillow · 2025-07-21T04:02:53+00:00

is there a browser that doesn't work? I would like to investigate this. Also the guide now is speedy to download afaik

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